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for the last time I will not opost on this site again for the umtinth time I have posted and am lucky if I get mayybe 3 or 4 responses where there are certain people that ask "what color should my bugger be today and 50 people would respond. So donrt bother responding to this as it will just be a was=te of your time Well then what would you like advice or help on?

Doobgirl32,

Did I miss a question?  I saw the one about listening to the song, but wth my slow dial-up at home, I have to wait until I'm at work for stuff like that.

 

Doob,

What do you want from us? Most people are not going to a website to listen to a song. Sing us a couple of lines. Don't be so thin skinned. Nobody is stepping on your sweet little feelings, you just haven't posted anything that has hit our interest button, keep trying. If you want advice, you'll get it. Post contoversy, and get probably 50 posts. You just haven't grabbed us yet, keep trying or don't, people come and go and certainly makes no difference to the world one way or the other, but you're welcome here.

LEV

Please take a look at all the threads I have brought forward for you.  I hope it will make you rethink your harsh words about this board, Doobie.Hillhoney39390.3731481481

 Doob, I'm sorry you feel ignored and hope you won't leave. Karen has pointed out some very good responses to your posts so I don't think your reasoning is very valid. Maybe you're just having a bad day and need to regroup and rethink about what you expect from this board. A better attitude can make all the difference in the world

 

Hugs,

Pip

Geez Doob.  What are those of us who do post on your threads??  Chopped liver?  I've posted on every one that I've seen. 

Deer doobgirl, it sounds like you are in a rough place right now. I didn't read any of your previous posts (that I remember) because I am only here sporadically. I want to try to give you some perspective, so that you are not taking this personally, as if your lack of responses have anything to do with YOU, or who you are.

There are a number of people who spend a good deal of time at this board and post frequently. Many here read and post every day, often several times a day. They choose to spend their free time on this site, thus are able to respond to others, form deeper friendships with others, etc. Others do not choose to spend as much time here, which results in having less time to reply to others, not forming as many close relationships on here, etc. It is no reflection on you or who you are. It is just an indication that you probably don't spend as much time on here as many others. Nothing wrong with that. I think you'll get out what you put in. Love and hugs, Juliah

JuliahRA39390.6550462963Juliah said it very well.  I remember you becoming very angry at least once before on this board and many here responded and tried to explain to you how this board works, i.e., that there's no instant messaging like you were expecting, there was nothing personal against you, etc.  I was struck by how kind and patient everyone was with you that last time but you still don't seem to understand.  I listened to the song you posted and it was so sad.  That song and your posts make me think you're in a lot of emotional pain and that's a problem that needs to be addressed.  You shouldn't have to feel that way.  Please remember that you will get more responses to some of your threads, and less on others.  Again, it's nothing personal against you.  It just depends on which topics "speak" to us.  You can be sure if you ask a question or need advice, the good people here will be there for you. 
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