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Just curious.  Awful lot like Roxy.  Just wondering if someone is THAT obsessed with me

I'm sure many would like you to stay and share your knowledge with the board.  Just please mind your p's and q's. 

You WERE part of the problem and you know it.  I guess some things never change and you still aren't willing to take responsibility for your behavior.

The difference is.....I TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT I DO AND SAY ON THIS BOARD

 

you didnt have to ask for my opinion i just wanted to remind you

Gee,

Thanks, I don't know how I manage to get myself dressed and to work in the morning without you reminding me

Just a couple of children having a pissing contest...nothing big

If you want intriguing....do a search.  Of course, Roxy went back and deleted everything she posted, but I'm sure someone here will fill you in.

*Edited because apparently I can't spell

 

Phatgirl239407.6960185185It's the story of Roxy and her personal forum moderator, Phatgirl2. It's kind of a tedious story and it never ends. Yes, it goes on and on my friends. Hi Roxy, so glad to see you back, I actually miss your posts and would love to hear anything you want to post about, I will always listen and try to help, after all that is what this board is for - ISN'T IT???????  Just PM me or email me then we won't upset anyone.  Yes you are right it all carried on while you were gone and a lot of the posts were not about RA!!!!!!!

love always your friend janie.xx Roxy, I miss your posts, too. I didn't miss her!  I have never had problem with anyone on this baord and am not one to fight on this boord BUT ROXY LEAVE THIS BOARD! YOU ARE TROUBLE! Roxy comes back and the fighting begins. Plus, this is a RA board not a Roxy life story board! sorry to all the new people that dont understand where i am coming from,just trust me. She is trouble!So Roxy gets totally picked on and it's ROXY who should leave? That is some f**ked up sh*t. Roxy is my bestest friend ever!! I think plenty of fighting has occurred on this board since Roxy left. Please
everyone take responsibility for your part in all the bickering, backstabbing,
blaming and bitching. I know I do

She erased her posts here and on the other board, She has a serious problem with taking responsibility for her actions.

I realize all you newbies have no idea, but don't let yourself get sucked into her drama.

 

Didn't someone out our sweet innocent Roxy as Ginger? yes

All these oxy's. No acne around here.
[QUOTE=soxy]yes

All these oxy's. No acne around here.
[/QUOTE]

MORON!
MOROFF!

YES!!!!! Ginger is Roxy, she setup that alias in April when she had her "stroke" That thank goodness she has miraclulosy recovered from.

Ginger posted in April that she has has RA for 15 years and now on her post about Lyrica she has only had RA for about 5 years. She needs to keep her lies straight!!

I wish all the other boards would stop kicking her off, it only takes them about 2 months to figure her out and tell her enough!!! Then she comes back here for her attention needs. Unfortunately there are still a handful of people on this board that can't figure it out and believe her lies.

This is the only board she can't be banned from. Bounces around everywhere else looking for an enabler, and EVERY time, she is snubbed ( Roxy, Toxy Loxy, Soxy, Ginger.....how about just Sybil? You were just an easy target. There are some complete morons on this board but I say ignore the hags and let them say what they will. Be strong girl!!!!

LOL!!!!! Yes Roxy is welcomed back to the board by all the "slower" members.

Blessed, Roxy has more aliases  (screen names) on here than other members.

I for one think this is the perfect home for Roxy. Even if anyone is said to be making personal attacks on her, there is no one to stop her.

She is out to make this world all about a night at the Roxy, and this is the only forum where she can't be stopped.

How much support has she actually given ANYONE on here? Unless it benifits her, suits her NEEDS, what you all say means DICK to her. Search back, see if I am wrong.

Unless its all about Roxy, she doesn't care.

Ohh, and sorry this thread FAILED what you wanted it to prove Roxy baby. It has only confused the last bit of enablers you had tagging on your pigtails.

Roxy is really Ginger?  Come on, you guys pulling my leg?  I didn't know that and I'm on here all the time.  How did I miss that?

Guess everyone else has her number, huh?  Oh, and to think I got all the blame for picking on her.  Poor me....my feelings have been so hurt here.  NOT!!!!!!!  I had Roxy's number a long, long, long time ago.  The rest, the "slower" ones as someone referred to will catch on soon enough. 

Phats

Damn, did you all know I'm now the moderator?  You all better shape up or SHIP OUT

What a frickin' moron

 Congratulations Phats! I'll be nice I promise...don't ban me pleaseeeee! You are in Moana Patona

 Who is Ginger? I must have missed that one too. The only Ginger I know is on Gilligans Island, we were fighting over her and Maryann one night on the chat thread. [QUOTE=Toxy]

LOL!!!!! Yes Roxy is welcomed back to the board by all the "slower" members.

Blessed, Roxy has more aliases  (screen names) on here than other members.

[/QUOTE]  I'd rather be slower than toxic.

Kindness is never slow. 

And it's Thanksgiving, people.  Don't we have a lot to be grateful for?

Pip

[QUOTE=Toxy]

LOL!!!!! Yes Roxy is welcomed back to the board by all the "slower" members.

Blessed, Roxy has more aliases  (screen names) on here than other members.

[/QUOTE]

That's your opinion...unless you are the administrator you have no idea how many screen names members have.

Ya know I have said some pretty nasty things, but only after being provoked...you're just being nasty for nasty's sake...you should be ashamed of yourself.

Yea I must be one of the slow members as well...I have no idea whats going on.. [QUOTE=Toxy]

LOL!!!!! Yes Roxy is welcomed back to the board by all the
"slower" members.


Blessed, Roxy has more aliases  (screen names) on here than other
members.

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Toxy, Moxy, Soxy, epoxy and whatother names you are going by. Don't you
think that you are probably a regular here and don't have the guts to show
all your buds here who you REALLY are? Is it because you fear the possibility
of being distanced by your board groupies? I have an issue with people who
lack a spine.lorster39408.3080671296The real coward's and troublemakers are hiding behind false names.  What happened to sickodrama?  It must be time for that person to show up too.  Grow up ladies or am I still in the grammar school crowd! 

I am not hidding behing any names. I am not one of the people that causes trouble on this board. But roxy started this and now she is sitting back enjoying us all fight over HER! This is her M. O. Entertaining to some,helpless to others,but she will take over this board with her daily diary while those newbies with questions about RA will not get answered. She will suck you in having you feel good about giving her advice,but will never take this advice you offer. And Rarely will offer to help or offer any advice or careing for anyone else. For those of you that are new, i feel for you because you will be the ones that get screwed when she returns to this board.

Well said newbeggining. We will now get the same old show, just on a different day.

[QUOTE=anewbeggining]

I am not hidding behing any names. I am not one of the people that causes trouble on this board. But roxy started this and now she is sitting back enjoying us all fight over HER! This is her M. O. Entertaining to some,helpless to others,but she will take over this board with her daily diary while those newbies with questions about RA will not get answered. She will suck you in having you feel good about giving her advice,but will never take this advice you offer. And Rarely will offer to help or offer any advice or careing for anyone else. For those of you that are new, i feel for you because you will be the ones that get screwed when she returns to this board.

[QUOTE=anewbeggining]

 She will suck you in having you feel good about giving her advice,but will never take this advice you offer. And Rarely will offer to help or offer any advice or careing for anyone else. For those of you that are new, i feel for you because you will be the ones that get screwed when she returns to this board.

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Why the heck would I care if someone takes my advice or not? It's not going to effect my life.

How will anyone get screwed?

I dunno...but some of you people here get WAY to wrapped up in this.

Loxy, soxy, foxy or even damn well biloxi how come you lot only pop in here to cause trouble, you never have posted before unless its under a different name. GROW UP. Its okay to say dont read the OT'S but a lot of newbies do and they leave straight away as its taken them so long to pluck up the courage to post here they get scared.

I had a newbie pm me and ask if this board was for real or is it people playing at having RA .

Hands down weirdest thread ever. W/ everything that I have been through these past 5 months Ive come to realize ALO of things.  Just because Roxy may or may not take advice that anyone here gives her makes no difference.  There are ALOT of people that are on here that arent signed for whatever reason they have.  BUT they may be having the same symptoms, feelings whatever tht Roxy may be having and that advice may be of help to THEM.  Who cares who takes our advice.  Do you take every peice of advice that everyone on here gives you?  Are you w/ Roxy each and every day to be able to tell wether she takes any of that advice that has been given on this board? NO.  So till you know FOR A FACT Yall need to back off a bit.  We are all grown adults here, really is your life that boring that you need to be upset if someone doesnt do what you want them to do. Since when do we know what is best for others? We can tell them what helps us, what has done good for us but untill we have walked in their shoes we have NO place to tell them what WE think THEY should be doing.  Just because we are all here for pretty much the same reason does not give us the right to do what many, me included, have done.  We have backed people so far into a corner that they do not feel comfortable sharing w/ us.  Its no wonder there are so many newbies that dont post on here afraid of what someone might say to them for in others opinoins being "to open".  WHo cares if Roxy uses this as a daily journal of how she is feeling.  If you dont want to read about Roxys life, it is pretty simple. Dont read her posts. The same goes for any of us.  IF there is  person on here that you dont want to read about skip over those posts.  We are all grown adults here, is it really that hard to be civil w/ eachother? Wow. Roxy sure has a lot of power on this board.  Seriously, if you don't like her, don't talk to her.  Why is that a problem?I vote to end the roxy threadThis thread is pathetic and childish to the extreme.
The forum in general is full of OT and girly spats, time for me to start looking else where.
My belly is full of turkey! What? No Munchausen-by-prOXY?

I must be dreaming. I knew turkey made you sleepy, but I didn't think you'd actually have nightmares after eating it. Evil turkey.

Maybe I shouldn't have had that extra piece of pumpkin pie....

 

Jasmine is into the Sam Adams again [QUOTE=justsaynoemore]Jasmine is into the Sam Adams again I am sipping Ginger rum on the Rox

Bahhhhhhh........

LMAO

MOT 

momofthree39409.3027546296Momofthree. I know the Roxy thread got old with everyone here. I didn't
follow too much of it but I have read plenty of the complaints. But, the daily
chat thread does the same thing. There are a handful of people on it that
talk about their entire days events. Same thing as far as I'm concerned.
What is the difference? Double standard? This board amazes me
sometimes. The very people that are complaining are the ones who share
their daily lives with everyone.

I havent read the daily chat too much, but what I have read of it

YOU DO HAVE A POINT.

I also know that there is one more person on this board who is going down the same road as Roxy. I really like this board but when it gets to be just one person taking over I usually stay away for awhile.

MOT    

momofthree39409.3043055556

Lorster,

I agree about the daily thread.  I don't contribute, nor read it very often. 

IMO, the difference between the daily thread and Roxy's drama is just that...drama.  Roxy always had everyone on here so worked up because Brett was mean to her, she had to call the police, she had a stroke, so and so died.  It was always something that had everyone so worked up all the time.  Most, if not all were lies.  That is the difference. (As I see it Well, these same few people complain and want the political threads off the
board but I don't see any more value in the daily chatter. I have also popped
into the daily chatter at times and have read posts made by non regulars and
found that their posts are totally ignored. Nothing different than the
newbies being ignored. Sorry daily chatterers but I'm just calling it as I see
it and I know others have seen this as well. sometimes in the daily chat when you post and it goes to the next page you dont realize that people may be posting at the same time.  If you dont like what is being talked about in any of those threads dont open them. The political thread is going to be about politics, the daily chat thread is going to be about everyones day...its a big shocker I know.Here's my take on the daily chat threads, the political threads, etc...

I belong to many different organizations - local politics, school watchdogs, church committees, neighborhood watch, professional organizations, etc.  In all of these, the members do spend time chatting to get to know each other.  Many meetings are quite informal; it's not uncommon to spend time chatting about things that are not specifically about the topic at hand.  Does it get out of hand sometimes?  Sure.  But it also helps us bond as a team, which helps us to work well together towards our common goal.

And besides, on the daily chat threads, much of the conversation is about the troubles people have in their daily lives that are either caused by or exacerbated by RA and/or the meds used to combat RA.

Just my two cents.

Personally, I think it is ignorant to complain about what is posted (except Roxy

We are all so different, we have different lives, experiences, etc.  Why not share.  I don't post on the political threads because it doesn't interest me....but it interests a lot of other people.  I say, go for it!  Post what you want!

There is no way to please everyone.  Some of the newbies who have left, may have left anyways.  No one knows why people leave a board.  That is pure speculation that they left because we were posting too many OT threads.  Craziness, I say!

 

I am going to go create a new id, Coxy.  Perhaps I shall create a new one too:  Message-board-orthodoxy

Shannon. there is no difference in Roxy sharing her life story on an
intermittent basis or the daily chatterers sharing their each and every day
problems, experiences. Its like your daily diary. I know more about some
of you than I care to. But, it is OK. I like the daily chatter. What I don't
like is it being more important than the political threads because those of
you feel it is more important. Its all the same. That said, lets just post
away, say what you want. Share every detail of your sex life with the
world if you want, but don't turn around and tell others what they can and
cannot post on here. A while back, someone wanted everyone to take a
vote on whether to eliminate the political thread. Many of you on the
daily chat wanted the political threads to come to an end. Some around
the same time went to an extreme of moving them to another part of the
board which didn't work. But these same people continue to post OT,
and daily conversation. What is important to me is not important to
others and vice versa. Everyone needs to get off their high horses around
here and just post as you like.

JSNM,

You just made my day!!!!!

LMFAO!!!!!!!

Even with all the OT threads, I never have a problem reading and finding the RA related ones. I mean...is it really too hard to "click" a few pages? Come on now.

 

I agree...people are gonna post what they feel like anyway...we have no moderator and for that I'm glad!

The political threads are very important to others and I think they should have their say too...I don't think we should be rude and name call for our differences of opinions because we have some really good debaters here and some extremely intelligent folks...it's all interesting.

Even if you don't like someone they have a right to be here same as the rest of us...we all need help in one way or another, I wouldn't go so far as to say someone needs to leave...maybe just a little change would be appropriate to to get along for the most part. If we all count to ten before we post a negative response there won't be so many hurt feelings and a lot less anger. We have a great board here...it would break my heart to see it destroyed and folks start leaving.

 

Oh sure!  Waltz in here spouting that nicey-nice stuff.

Likewise, I've also never been against the OT threads. In fact, even though I don't post on the political threads, I supported them in the poll that was taken a while back.

And just to clarify, there's a big difference (in my opinion) between the daily chat thread and the political threads, in that the daily chat doesn't involve backstabbing and name calling.

Lorster, I don't remember any of the daily chatters ever saying that the chat thread was more important than the political thread. What I said, was that it wasn't right that the political threads remained on the main board, while the daily chat was pushed to a different board.

Also, I think you've got it all wrong when you say that new people are ignored on the daily chat. That just isn't true.

 

It's all she knows!!! I don't think she has a hostile bone in her body.

 

Sure would be interesting to see what sets her off, and how twisted she could become....hmmmm.........

Sic em Marvin! Thanks meme!

I have got to cook, can't play now

 

HAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHA YOU SAID IT NOT ME!!!!

Was there a meaning behind it????

Do you want to see how far we can go with it???

momofthree39409.8345023148

MOT - did you really ask that?

You already know the answer! [QUOTE=arriscolwell]

MOT - did you really ask that?

You already know the answer!

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LOL!!! I know, I was just hoping to see if she would come out and just tell us all in her own words!!! Ya know, she is one to open up so I thought she could give us the real skinny on what the heck she is thinking!!    

 

 

momofthree39409.8433449074Oh, MOT - that's a knee slapper right there.....

The key there is *IF* this is her only way to vent.

 

By our own research, it is not. There is no danger here. Except the "danger" of her being fully exposed for what she is.

[QUOTE=arriscolwell]

The key there is *IF* this is her only way to vent.

 

(By our own research, it is not.) There is no danger here. Except the "danger" of her being fully exposed for what she is.

[/QUOTE]

Wow, well said Katie!!

 

But you must forgive to be forgiven too! I'm sure there is something we've all done that we needed forgiveness for. What would it have done to you if you were NOT given that forgiveness. Please...let a dead dog lie!! Then tell her to quit re-hashing crap! She digs it up as much as we do.I'm not pointing any fingers...I'm including everyone in that post... You have to point fingers with her. because if it's not labeled "roxy" she thinks it doesn't pertain to her.

Blessed, seriously..

Yes everybody needs forgiveness you are right but come on dont you see what Roxy is doing by starting this thread???? She is sitting back laughing her butt off at everyone who has an opinion about her good or bad. I cant believe im explaining this when im sure you already know how she works.  Believe it or not she is not in the least bit at home behind her computer crying about it at all. Looks like we'll keep the soup hot while she stirs.   

I know MOT...some of what you're saying may be true but...what if by some small chance what I am saying is true...what then? I just had to say something. It puts an awful feeling in the pit of my stomach.  No worries, we've been down this road many times and she still comes back and it's okay but she needs to chill out and I think everyone will be more welcoming

And then I tried to count how many times she said anything like "I'm here for you" or how many times she held her hand out to me, or to anyone.....and I couldn't count.........because I don't know how to count to "Zero"

I am truly sorry for what Roxy put you and others thru and I am sorry for me butting in...

Roxy...please don't dig up bones. Okay...just come and start a new!  Shoot Blessed, I'd be worried about you if you DIDN'T butt in.   [QUOTE=arriscolwell]Shoot Blessed, I'd be worried about you if you DIDN'T butt in. And who are you epoxy?And why do you want to keep bumping this thread?No.  It doesn't make me leary.  I mean, who cares?Yeah really. I mean, I can't stand ROxy and that's QUITE obvious. But I still greet newbies. They deserve it. I refuse to let her make me "leary" There is more good out there than bad.I missed the whole Roxy thing but I'm getting a taste of it now.  All I can say is, if all these new "oxys" and/or other aliases are Roxy and she is in fact playing these games, there really is a problem with her.  She is manipulating us and this board for her own enjoyment.  Since I don't know for sure if they're all her or not I still don't know what to make of the whole situation other than to say that this issue has been very divisive for the board and that's unfortunate. Just know this Jesse, every "oxy" is in fact Roxy.

Can you give anyone here proof that what you say is true?

 

Those of you who have been defending Roxy, what's your take on all the "oxys" out there?  Do you think they're all her?  If so, what do you make of it?  Do you think what she's doing is OK?  Doesn't it strike you as a little odd and self-serving?  In reading the whole drama, I'm trying not to take sides, especially since I don't know the history, but I found myself coming to my own conclusions, just based on this newest episode.  I was hoping I was wrong. 

I'm not defending Roxy.  I only know what everyone else knows here.  Just of the things Roxy has posted. 

Do I think all of these "oxys" are Roxy? I'm not saying it is or isn't..only what I THINK...and that is...no...I don't THINK it is Roxy.

One thing I DO know is this...we have some very rude, cruel and bored people here.  So I THINK that these "oxys" are people here who are too afraid to give their thoughts using their "real" names.

 

[QUOTE=Jesse88]

  In reading the whole drama, I'm trying not to take sides, especially since I don't know the history, but I found myself coming to my own conclusions, just based on this newest episode.  I was hoping I was wrong. 

[/QUOTE]

Here are my thoughts on this..

Roxy has some problems.  Some say or think that these are made up or possibly she has a mental problem.  How these people know these facts are beyond me, but I look at it this way.  If Roxy's problems are real or all in her head...they are still problems.  Why would I want to criticize someone with a lot of problems going on?  Oh yeah...now I know...it makes me feel better about my own situation and then I feel superior.

[QUOTE=kelstev]

[QUOTE=momofthree]Just know the Jesse, every "oxy" is in fact Roxy.

Can you give anyone here proof that what you say is true?

 

[/QUOTE]

 

Just look at the pattern!!!! 

momofthree39411.3555324074[QUOTE=kelstev][QUOTE=Jesse88]

  In reading the whole drama, I'm trying not to take sides, especially since I don't know the history, but I found myself coming to my own conclusions, just based on this newest episode.  I was hoping I was wrong. 

[/QUOTE]

Here are my thoughts on this..

Roxy has some problems.  Some say or think that these are made up or possibly she has a mental problem.  How these people know these facts are beyond me, but I look at it this way.  If Roxy's problems are real or all in her head...they are still problems.  Why would I want to criticize someone with a lot of problems going on?  Oh yeah...now I know...it makes me feel better about my own situation and then I feel superior.

[/QUOTE]

 

If you think that makes us feel superior then think again!!

I don't know if all the "oxy's" are Roxy or not.  I don't really know the history of her before I got on this board.  I have heard a lot about her same behaviors on other boards.  According to others, this is the way she is and has been for many years. 

My complaint about Roxy was the lying.  Of course, who knows who is lying about what?  BUT, she had the board in such an uproar because she would post that she got beat up, then disappear and the people who were really worried about her were sick they were so upset about her.  I could go on and on, but what is the point?  I have my reasons for not liking her.  I really don't care if she posts or not.  BUT, I won't stand back and watch her get the new people all wound up like she did the last time.  I had her number long before I called her on it.  She had this board in an uproar for a long time. 

Sure, there are people here who stir stuff up (me

That is just my opinion.  i'm sure there are some who agree and disagree.  That is what makes us all unique. 

Phats

 

    All I know is that if I had been talking to someone and then found out that it was really Roxy tricking me, I'd think,  Oh.  What an idiot.  It wouldn't wreck my day or anything.Hey, this does not mean I was Loxy

Roxy is Ginger. She created her in April when she was having a problem, on the board, Ginger's first post ( you can do a search) was to defend Roxy.

Roxy was posting on 4ratalk, if you search Ginger's posts here and Roxy's on that board you will see they are the same. Also 4ratalk, told her enough!!! She has deleted those posts . but many of us have seen them before she could.

So when 4ratalk had enough of her, she is back here posting under Ginger and Roxy.

Phats was so onpoint with her last post. Roxy had a way of getting sympathy from everyone and people got really hurt with all her lies. She didn't want any advice just to tell her woes and get sympathy, she really never supported anyone.

She will  now have all the new members to prey on if we let her. All the moderated boards have outed her.

Just because some of us are not "slow" to catch on to Roxy's lies and deceptions, does not in anyway mean we are not KIND people. There are so many unbelievably kind people on this board that have not been slow to catch on.

Yes it is very sad that we have to use different usernames to post this so we will not be attacked by people. It is very ironic that the people that attack are the people that believe that they are KIND and wonderful but they need to look at their attacks, they are not very nice people.

What I am saying is Enough of Roxy and let's not let her start up again just because this board has no moderator. This is the only board that will have her.

 

Toxy...I agree with most of your post.  I even agree that Ginger may possibly be Roxy.  But the problem I have is this....how the heck do people get hurt by what Roxy says?  How do they get hurt if Roxy doesn't take their advice?  How does the fact that she comes for advice (but doesn't take it) but never offers help to others hurt anyone?  I guess I'm a bit dense.  It's never hurt me in the least.  I've offered advice to Roxy.  I believe I have done my best to be friendly to her.  She has never offered any advice to me.  She's never even congratulated me on my granddaughter.  Most of our conversations have been about her only.  But never have I been hurt by those facts.  How can any of that hurt me? 

 

Even the disscord she brings to this board causes pain to some. People are attacked called names, so on and so on. It is painful enough that people use different names. What is supposed to be a board where we support each other turns into namecalling and attacking.

I am glad it does not cause you pain to be attacked or called names, but to some members that come here to give and receive support from others that they feel truly understand what this disease is like to live with , it does hurt them.

Well..maybe they need to work on other things if things a person says online on a message board causes them pain.

Kel,

I agree that it doesn't really matter if she takes anyones advice or not.  Who cares.  My problem was that she had everyone so worked up over her daily drama.  When she had to call the police on her husband because he threw something at her (or whatever the case was???).  She had the sweetest, most caring people so up in arms because she pulls that crap, then disappears for a while.  People were so worried about her.  That is what irked me.  Quite frankly, I could care less what she does, etc.  But, she had people in such an uproar.  Roxy made it seem like the whole world was against her, it was always some type of drama.  Someone was always doing something to her, or not doing something, stealing, hitting her, it just never stopped.

THAT was my problem.  Then, she would talk about how sweet and innocent she was, but in the next breath cuss you like a sailor.  Anyone who puts their personal information on a public chat board, no matter what it is, will have someone, somewhere who has an opinion about that info.

Just my 2 cents

Don't judge, everyone is different, some are more caring and sensitive than others, it does not mean they are any better or worst as people and does not mean they need to "work on it". We are all different, that's what makes life so interesting!!!

I guess I just know that we can't save everyone in the world, and since there isn't much I can do but give advice to anyone here, I don't get myself too worked up over anything here.

I do understand what you guys are saying though.

I'm with you Kelstev.  I do not go on the boards as much as others do, so I miss a lot of what is really happening, but verbal abuse is uncalled for and really shows the true character of that person which is not very becoming at all.

Well, if my memory serves me well, I think some members had her phone
number and called her. There was more to some of these friendships than
just on this board. Maybe I'm wrong and am thinking of someone else, but I
recall reading that people tried to call her when they thought she was in
danger.I know Roxy and Deanna talked with eachother on the phone.

I posted this and came back 15 pages later.  This is not entertaining.  Yes, I am Ginger.  I used Ginger to ask questions pertaining to my RA.  I found it wierd all these other oxys.......... they are not mine.  I do not care to share my life with you but I do think it would be good for those that posted on this thread to realize how ugly and nasty you can get.  I find many of you petty.  I have been one of the few people I have read about that are totally disabled from RA in four years.  I cannot cook, clean, only hobble to the bathroom and bed. RA has taken over my life.  I have dealt with it but I will tell you what - I hope someone else in my position never comes here for actual support !  Some people here are sincere and I get emails from them.  I am grateful.  I am not a big typist because of my fingers but as I said - I have nothing to share with this board.  I just think it is good for you to look at YOUR OWN behavior.  This board was a life saver for me in the beginning.  The vibe here is so different and for the most part - there is more ugly vibe than supportive and only a few cause that.  SAD  I don't know what I would have done without all the support I received in the beginning.

PS  I am in the process of getting a wheelchair which I am sure will help my attitude.  I have been home bound for over a year.  Also,  I am guilty as charged regarding supporting others.  My words seem hollow unless I can give advice that has not already been given.  The only advice I can give is from my experience and to be honest - I feel very negative when it comes to RA.  Rather keep my mouth shut than to bring someone down and so many people here offer such good advice.  I used to be the first to welcome every new member.  Then AI changed and I have mixed feelings about encouraging anyone to use this site.

roxy39411.6336689815

DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA

Well, at least you admitted to being Ginger.  Who knows who else you have been on this board.  If we are all so bad, why would you come here to ask questions?  You are nothing but a huge contradiction.  You always have been and always will be.  Nothing changes with you.  You lie more than you tell the truth. 

If you are truly disabled, it is probably due to your mental status as opposed to your "RA". 

If you think I'm harsh, too bad, I call it as I see it.

Phats

One more thing....you sure do take advantage of every post to tell the people on here how terrible we all are.  I guess those things never change either. Phats........she's just gonna snap back at you, as usual. I really think we should just ignore her.

Yeah, but one more thing!

Kudos to you folks who figured out who she really is.  I just took a few minutes to read back over "ginger".  OMG, Roxy, you are so psycho.  You even are stupid enough to contradict yourself in your own posts.  I'm not going to waste my time going into what they are.  Just know that I feel sorry for you.  I feel sorry that you have to go to such lengths to have someone talk to you because you are such a loser. 

**Edited because I can't spell

Please go away, and please do not share your life with this board. Roxy, how can you be so cruel to people so ill ??? Look at your posts and you should see some cruelty in your behavior. We beg you not to come back, you have had RA 2.5 years not 4 (in all your posts), Ginger has had it either 15 or 5 years depending on all your posts. Please I know you have it much more severely than anyone else, you are always the victim.

I am sorry that all the other boards have ousted you, but please do not come back here with your lies and mental problems.

Your contradictions show all your lies. Who knows if you even have RA or maybe you are just mentally ill and do this for attention.

This is the song that never ends,

It just goes on and on my friends,

Some people started singing it, not knowing what it was,

And they just kept on singing it forever, just because. . .

This is the song that never ends,

It just goes on and on my friends,

Some people started singing it, not knowing what it was,

And they just kept on singing it forever, just because. . .

This is the song that never ends,

It just goes on and on my friends,

Some people started singing it, not knowing what it was,

And they just kept on singing it forever, just because. . .

This is the song that never ends,

It just goes on and on my friends,

Some people started singing it, not knowing what it was,

And they just kept on singing it forever, just because. . .

This is the song that never ends,

Dear Toxy - Back up your accusations with pasting posts.  In fact, it would be nice if you all did.Why don't you do a search for Roxanne Baxter Chico CA and see how many things come up.  I have many accomplishments in my life until RA. roxy39411.6863657407How true Hillhoney, and Roxy I am sorry but I can longer support you, you have been the selfish one you put too many people through heartache here and when you are caught in a lie you blame it on everyone else.  I had stayed out of this till today but I said what I said and I will not apoligise for it.  You keep coming back to stir the pot and think it is all fun and games, but let any of us say anything you don't like and it is" poor roxy" she has it so hard and I work because I can not afford not to.  So Roxy this is all I have to say if you need to say anything else to me then PM it, the rest of the people, on this board, don't need to deal with what is going on here.  Meme. meme39411.6814814815
roxy
Senior Member
Posted: 25 May 2005 at 10:05am | IP Logged

Ginger
Newbie
Posted: 12 April 2007 at 1:04pm | IP Logged

Drama Queen,  Roxy already posted that she is receiving retirement in which she earned.  I make good money and collect my retirement and it is no ones business what I earn. 

I rarely come here.  I lurk on all the boards but this board - I have never seen so much meanness in the 15 years I have had RA.

Ginger
Newbie
Posted: 10 November 2007 at 12:26pm | IP Logged

Ginger WAS deceptive.  I did not want you all to figure out she was Roxy.  I just wanted questions answered.  As far as diagnosis and onset, it was almost a year from onset to diagnosis.

PS  Who would go by Loxy, Toxy, Moxy, Boxy or whatever ???????  Now that seems a bit deceptive.

roxy39411.692337963

You guys are all so much fun!!

I wonder where Daisy is

She'd get a big kick out a this, don't ya think?

I was thinking she and Lev would make a darling couple

Now what are we going to do?

Maybe we could all meet up in the Keith O thread and fight there for a while roxy
Senior Member

Posted: 25 November 2007 at 4:35pm | IP Logged

Ginger WAS deceptive.  I did not want you all to figure out she was Roxy.  I just wanted questions answered.  As far as diagnosis and onset, it was almost a year from onset to diagnosis.

PS  Who would go by Loxy, Toxy, Moxy, Boxy or whatever ???????  Now that seems a bit deceptive.


 

It doesn't seem like Ginger's first post on April 12th was a question. Roxy, take some responsibility for your actions.

If you need to get questions answered, ask another support board, oh yes that's right you can't, they have all ousted you.

I am sure there are many other members of this board with accomplishments listed on the web, but they are too intelligent to post their names, and most of the important accomplishments in life are not going to be listed on the web, eg: Being a wonderful, mother, father, daughter, brother, grandparent, and friend.

Please leave us alone!!!

There are a couple of multi user name posters here that do the over the top drama thing. They are easy to spot as they have the worst and most rare of everything.

I think Roxy, if you are seeking help, you should seek that help.  You won't find it on a forum. I don't think any one is being mean.  I personally would not invest so much emotion to what other people post.

Hope everyone had a great holiday :) LOL

OMG I go away this morning to come back tonight to all of this????

Sooooooooooooooooo GINGER is Roxy huh??? makes me wonder.

Ok this is all f-ing crazy...Isn't it sad that someone had to create a new name to ask questions regarding her RA?  If she would have come on here w/ her username nobody would have helped her.  WHO CARES!!!!  And mybe she has had RA for 4 years, maybe it went undiagnosed for the remainder..Who the hell are we to know? We are not in Roxy's shoes, we do not go about our daily lives knowing exactly what she is going through. But she couldnt come here, to a place she felt safe to ask questions about a disease that we all have (for the most part).  How they hell would you feel if you were in her position? Being put down the way she has been.  Sure she creates drama but dont we all?  We are all here for the same reason, for RA...have you guys forgotten that?  So maybe she doesnt take our advice, but somone out there may have read the advice that was given and taken it and it may have helped them.  But you guys don't think about that do you?   We need to ALL act like adults and realize that we all make bad decisions and bad choices. 

Kelsaysmommy,

Oh heck yeah, I have made mistakes.  As most of the people on here.  However, most of us don't make the same mistake and pull the same sh*t over and over again.  sorry, but you are wrong here.  If you want Roxy to have so much support...give her your phone number and you can be her sounding board.  We don't want her here.  We have been there and done that.  True, we are all here for the same thing...but there are many other places she can go.  Oh, yeah, they told her to get lost too.  See a pattern?  Sorry, KM, but you are off base.  BTW, none of us would be in her position, because we aren't liars and cheaters.  We don't make up ailments and use this board as our only social outlet.  She has problems way beyond what anyone on this board can fix or even so much as help her with.

I still vote that you give her your personal information and it will solve both our problems.

Roxy did not create Ginger to ask questions, she created her in April and her first posts were to defend Roxy, not ask questions so save your sympathy for someone that is truthful and honest. She has just started using Ginger to ask questions since 4ratalk had enough of her.

Before you defend Roxy and give her sympathy pleAse get the facts straight.

Yeah, what Toxy said

Roxy, if you're reading this and you really want help, post under your real name.  It's clear there are some very kind hearted people who will continue to assist you and hopefully those who don't want you here will just ignore your posts, which they can do ONLY if you post your real name.  So, play fair and let's see how it goes with a clean slate. 

I think she is "Rixy", "Raxy" and "GoEatASnaxie" too

This is all so dibilitating What a strange and bizarre thread this is....It does seem to me though if you don't want Roxy to post, that you wouldn't respond to this thread. It seems to me that people enjoy feeding the drama much more than they dislike Roxy. It's almost like being in high school again, isn't it????


LynnFreckles, thanks for your post above.I got my first good belly laugh from your RIXY/RAXY/ GOEATASNAXIE.Thats just to funny.

It's all so silly is'nt it??

As far as I know, Roxy wasn't banned from all the boards. Posting not so much on those, maybe. Seems this board is the last to see the true Roxy. Maybe she waited until she wore out her welcome at the other places before she revealed her true self here.

But, then again, I am just a person hiding under an assumed name, so what I say might be crap.

Truth be told, I have never posted on this board until this current edition of the Roxy soap started, and once it dies out, will probably never post again!

But, then again, stranger things have happened, so you never know!

A quick suggestion though, get this place moderated so drama like this doesn't have to take place. You don't even have to provide and email addy to join. Something like that makes my tail tingle when I join a forum.

Have fun you all, and good night!
Really guys and gals...there are only a handful of you who do not want Roxy here...so please don't try to speak for everyone by making the generalized statement of, "we don't want her here." Wow once again I leave and come back all he## has broken loose again!!!!  It's ok MO3, figured that would have happened!

And Blessed, the reason Roxy thrives here is because there are no rules! There is no moderation of this board, so anyone can say ANYTHING they want and not get booted. Be it lies, spam, or in general trolling, no one can be made to stop!

Unless things get fixed here, Roxy has found her home where she can sponge off the unknowing. Be prepared to deal with it.

ePoxy39411.8263541667 [QUOTE=Blessed]Really guys and gals...there are only a handful of you who do not want Roxy here...so please don't try to speak for everyone by making the generalized statement of, "we don't want her here." Which goes back to what I said in my earlier post.  If she'll just post under her own name, those who want to "talk" to her can do so and those who have had enough of the drama can skip it.  But when various aliases are used, there's no way to know which ones to skip.  Since there's no moderator and no way to stop anyone, anytime for saying anything they want, no matter how offensive it may be to some (and people have different ideas of what's offensive), we just have to act like adults by ignoring what we don't like.  I think most will do that if they can clearly see who's posting, without any alias-type games.  I agree Jesse. It is the same concept as the political threads and all other
threads that some ppl love and some ppl hate. Now, Roxys job is to be
honest about who she is and converse and those that want to repond can,
the rest, press their ignore button.  LOL Lori....you'll have all the newbies looking for that "ignore button"OMG I wish more things came with an Ignore button.  Bills, aches-n-pains, loud neighbors, playful cats at 3:00AM, co-workers, BOSSES, certain family members... HUSBANDS

  Puppies and Kids!

 

OMG! I was looking for it myself. Too Funny!

I was thinking "I've been around all this time and we have an ignore button? I'm such an airhead!" I was afraid to ask where it was.

For the record; I think this thread takes the cake as far as "Stupidest Argument Thread"; but like everyone else I continue reading.

I have however fought the urge to respond.....but I just couldn't help it when moana mentioned the ignore button.

Ps where is the ignore button I would love one!!!  heheheehehe [QUOTE=joonie]Is the "ignore button" kinda like the "Easy button"? [/QUOTE]

Same-same!

Lori started this...now make her create us an "ignore button".We could make a mint with something like that

Nice to know... that sitting at home taking care of a toddler is considered drama.

And if there was any drama I made of recently it is because of Lortabs and mental issues. Yeah... no fixing the mental issues they are here to stay, been living with it for this long... why not another 20 years LMAO!what are you talking about Lev? [QUOTE=roxy]

Ginger WAS deceptive.  I did not want you all to figure out she was Roxy.  I just wanted questions answered.  As far as diagnosis and onset, it was almost a year from onset to diagnosis.

PS  Who would go by Loxy, Toxy, Moxy, Boxy or whatever ???????  Now that seems a bit deceptive.

[/QUOTE]
this is the most confusing thing i have ever read, lmao!  so ginger is the alter-ego created to ask questions...questions you couldnt ask under your real identity?  what were you going to ask about that was so embarrassing that couldnt originate from your screen name?  poop related maybe?  yeah i could see that-explosive diarrhea can be pretty humbling.  ok seriously though, i just wasted 10 minutes of my life reading the 21 page thread out of sheer morbid curiosity about what could be so darn amazing that would fill 21 pages worth of posting!  it was very anticlimactic to find that there was no cool dialogue.  however this post here that i quoted is one of the most dissociative things i have ever read.  irregardless, forums almost always have sporadic drama-it happens.  people, talk, drama...cant avoid it.  now the 16 dif oxys are confusing me, and the dissociative type multiple screen names has never made sense to me, and as for pretending to have this disease, well man if you learned anything from reading this boards posts it has to be that this is not something you would ever want and def not pretend to have!  i'd pretend to have some cool disorder that like supermodels have where everytime you eat donuts or ice cream you get prettier or each time you bat an eyelash men fall over flat in front of you.  seriously...i typically avoid stuff like this where i am not personally involved but after sifting through this tedious conversation where i understood very little i felt compelled to add to the madness;) so thats my opinion oh and to add to it, there will always be people who thrive on drama, conflict and deception and sahmefully they can ruin what otherwise would be a pleasant experience for the rest of us.  in an ideal world we'd all create one screen name and live in truthful respectful blissful utopian e-harmony, but alas there are skeezy fakers and dramamongers to break up our happy home!  so at the end of the day there are still us normal people here to talk about our disease, the effects and all the million ways it affects our lives, and in the passing weeks and months we will still be doing the same thing-looking to find people with a common demoninator to make us feel less alone and isolated by our struggle.  again i am rambling...peace homies!
 











Thats right Moxy, you are the yin to my yang.


I dont post here much but I basically think that all the oxys are Roxy and she getsa kick out of seeing us all riled up.  I think she is a very lonely person and needs help.  She has been on every board imaginable and it is always the same thing, the same stories and it is all getting so old and boring.  I do not even believe she has RA or fibro anymore, first she has it 5 years then 15 she cant even keep her own stories straight. I say everytime she posts or any of the oxys post that you just ignore the posts and eventually she will get tired and just disappear and one of the board problems will be solved

P.S. I also think she is Levlarry
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