Hi guys, I'm seeing a consultant in January and I'm a little unsure about what I should say...
The last time I went to a rheumatologist he sent me away with nothing. He was very rude, basically called me a liar (for my g'father having RA on his death certificate) and just sent me away with nothing but these lines echoing in my head: "You do have something. But if I diagnose you, you cant work for more than 16hours a week... And you dont want that...".
For 2 years I ignored the immense pain thinking no-one would help. But my partner, Jay, who has messaged on these forums, has built up my confidence to get another opinion from a different professor. But I'm still unsure about what I should say? What questions could I ask that would help me get the best help??
Thanks, Tom x
Ok Tom the best thing to do is to sit down and write out what pains etc you are experiencing after you have your list then write out questions you want to ask. as to can xrays of your joints be done to see if there is any deteriation of the joints. Can bloodwork be done to check your levels and if the level isn't there to say you have ra it doesn't mean you don't have it. Ask the rd if your thyroid should be tested because if your thyroid is not at proper level it can make your joints ache too. If the rd doesn't thnk it is ra then ask them what they think it is and why. Now I don't know if this is allowed in the UK but here you are entitled to a second opinion, get one if you can. write down your family's history with ra and take that in with you. If you have to do some reasearch online and at the library before you go to the rd and write down any information and questions you find that pretain to what you are going through right now. Take all this with you when you go to the rd, this way you can make sure you give him all the info you need and you can make sure to ask the questions you need to find out what to do from this point on. I hope this helps and welcome to the board. memeThat's sooo frustarting. Not diagnosing you doesn't make the condition not exist. There sare 7 criteria to diagnose RA and if you have 4 of them it means a positive diagnoisis.The criteria for the diagnosis of rheumatoid arthritis (RA) are the same for older and younger persons:
1998
revised American College of Rheumatology criteria for classification of
rheumatoid arthritis. Patients should have at least 4 of the 7
criteria, and the first 3 must have been present for 6 weeks or more
Hi just wanted to welcome you to the board I can't really add
anything that the ladies haven't told they are pretty informitive.
Have a nice evening.
Keep in touch and let us know what happens. There are lots of people here that are caring and very knowledgable on the subject of ra, we have been there and done that! LOL
take care
Hi Tom. Welcome to the board. You have been given some good advice here. I have changed my rheumatologist because of his attitude and i now have good one . I went in fully armed with a diary of events and problems to my new rheumy, he read it all over carefully and re-tested my bloods, xrays etc. and I am now getting the help i needed. I cant understand the reason for him telling you that you cant work more than 16 hours a week etc if you have RA. The only reason for that would be if you felt unable to do so in yourself. I claim disability but only after battling with RA for years and eventually unable to hold down my job. I coped for years working with RA and i worked more than 16 hours a week. If you are unable to work full time, you can still claim disability and work part time. There are various levels of claims you can apply for.
http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/DisabledPeople/index.htm?cids=Go ogle_PPC&cre=DPAC_Franchise
This will give you the information you need.
Let us know what happens
Take care
Lisa
I wish I had seen this months ago. I have a great rhuemy but went through heck with my primary doc that caught the RA in the first place. So I agree with everything that has been said above just go in with a battery of questions and insist on answers.
Buried in this website is a section called "Your First Rheumy Visit" and here's a list of questions you might consider: What are my options for treatment? |
Unless you are filing for some sort of disability through the governemnt, ect. or feel you are unabel to focus or do your job physically, why is the RD stating that you cannot work over 16 hours per week?
I cannot even find a job. When I did in the past I was unable to hold it for very long.
Maybe you need to enlighten this RD or search for another one that believes in patient report,human suffering and has witnessed it first hand and knows what he/she is talking about concerning RA.
WElcome to the board, so sorry you have RA.
jode
Hi Tom and welcome. It looks like these very informed people have guided you in the right direction. Let us know about your progress. Welcome to the board. All I can add is don't let them convince you "It's all in your head". I believed it when I was told and promptly went to all my head dr appts. Well, 2 years later, I got a real dr.Hi Tom!
Glad you joined us! Say 'Hi' to Jayson for me!
Pip
P.S. Dump the rheumy!