Jode
ohh i missed that part hmm i dunno now
keep itThank you so much for your input.
jode
Jode
Jode, if you really don't want the contact with him, maybe you could sent it back to his family with a nice note. I would tell them that you were deeply touched when these items were given to you, but under the circumstances, you thought they should have them back so they could be kept in the family.
If they had been given to you after your relationship ended with the boyfriend, then I would say they wanted you to have a keepsake of this lovely woman. But it sounds like you were together when they gave them to you. If that's the case, then I do think the right thing to do would be to return them.
This is the first time I've checked in today. Jode, I surely hope you are feeling better. I know you are looking forward to having you daughter with you. I've been thinking of you and hope everything is okay.
Gentle hugs,
Nini
Jode, I agree with everyone. You will feel good about it if you mail it to him
jode
I don't know, Jod, I think you should keep it. It was given to you and it sounds like it was given to you in love and if you contact your ex he may think it's an attempt to find out about him because you still care. She and her had a connection and that connection is still there and she wanted you to have it, regardless. I think she wants you to think fonderly of her everytime and remember her when you see it. I think that was her way of telling you she did contact your family and everything is alright!
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And........if they were so worried about it, why haven't they contacted you? Keep it, you are the only one who truly deserves it, or she wouldn't have given it to you.
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