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Good morning all (or whatever it is for you),

I have not been on in a while and have missed my friends here. I hope the Holidays were good to everyone. I am doing okay and seem to work and sleep. Exciting life isn't it?

To all of the NEW people hello and welcome. I hope you enjoy this site as much as I do.

Jay

Good Morning,

Well don't know how good it is bad pain day for me.  My loving husband and teenager has wound up giving me a cold.  On top of my ra pain it is still cold and I haven't been warm for days that just makes my joints ache even more. 

Sorry for the rant and pity party I am just not feeling to happy with myself today I hate this, I hurt all the time and my husband just is not the most understanding soul about pain I think he thinks I am faking it half the time.  

thanks for letting me vent......

nora

Hi Jay,

It's been a while since I posted, too.  I started all of my meds about 1 month after the doc prescribed them for me.  The warning list on the methotrexate was sooo long I was afraid to put the pills down my throat!  Finally, I bit the bullet and did it, because I was getting worse.  Started on the MTX just 7.5 mg and 5 of pred.  Felt some immediate relief from the pred, but after two weeks, just kept getting worse.  A couple of weeks ago he upped me to 10 of the MTX, wanted to go to 15 but I was still really bothered by the nausea, so he went to 10.  Still no relief.  Now my pred is upped.  I'm getting nowhere with the meds. No more nausea for me, though, that's a plus!  How's everyone else doing? 

 

       Good Morning Everyone!

It is so good to see you here Jay! 

It's been so cold here in NC, even had a big snow in the mountains...we didn't get any though.

Hope ya'll have a good day today...it's house cleaning and laundry for me.

 

Nora, that what most f our spouses think. Vent any time you want.

Lisa, Ask RD about the injectable Mtx. I have read about lots of people here that do it because of nausea. As you know already it seems like we wait forever to see what happens only to be bumped up ion dosage a little. Very frustrating to the person in pain. The prednisone does help in the meen time iI hope. Hang in there it will get better it just may take a few more months. Yes months sorry but there is no reason to lie to you. Everyone is so different and I hope it is fast for you.

Mona, My house needs cleaning and i have dirty laundry. I will trade you for a Snowball???

Ok, ill come join your chat Jay....

But Jay,Ill come clean your house.  I love cleaning...Yea im weird

 

Shannon I don't think that's what Jay has in mind....ummm yea that would mean I would have to get on one of those big metel things w/ wings ummm yea i dunno about that one..now if time warping or whatever its called where all id have to do is press a butten and Id be where ever id want to be i might consider that LOL[QUOTE=RDHcRA]

Hi Jay,

It's been a while since I posted, too.  I started all of my meds about 1 month after the doc prescribed them for me.  The warning list on the methotrexate was sooo long I was afraid to put the pills down my throat!  Finally, I bit the bullet and did it, because I was getting worse.  Started on the MTX just 7.5 mg and 5 of pred.  Felt some immediate relief from the pred, but after two weeks, just kept getting worse.  A couple of weeks ago he upped me to 10 of the MTX, wanted to go to 15 but I was still really bothered by the nausea, so he went to 10.  Still no relief.  Now my pred is upped.  I'm getting nowhere with the meds. No more nausea for me, though, that's a plus!  How's everyone else doing? 

 

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Glad to hear no more nausea for ya, hope the MTX kicks in soon for you.

I think I am going to try to tackle my room after I eat the breakfast I slept thru, still hungry from lunch.

Shannon, how bout some photos of your new house - I would love to see it!  Congratulations!

Howdy everyone, the hillbilly is in da house!

Where ya been, Karen?! Did you get took down with the ship?

 

Karen, my house is stil in a little bit of disaray hopefully this weekend i'll get it photo ready :D

 Hey Karen!

Joonie you want to watch two mouthy puppy's? I need a nap!

So glad to see you on. I missed this place more than I realized.

Yeah, I licked a few wounds and got the tail out of my crack and decided it was time to come back!  TA DA!Oh... Karen...I thought you and Jack Sparrow were ya know... get yo mind outta the gutter! Lost!!! Joonie you know Jack Sparrow would not have a chance against the Sea Hag. In or out of the gutter!!!

 

No Joonie not Jack...George...George Clooney!

Karen that tail in the crack is sooo flipping uncomforatable ain't it?

Ok Jack it is...even though he's not such a hottie as a mad barber! Kind of scary but definetly not hot.

I bought mine on sale from Nordstroms - you won't believe this but I got it for in the holiday sales!  Of course I may change my mind about it before August. . .

you mean women can be indecisive? (that may be spelled wrong)  Show us your dress Karen!!!  Karen...I may get you (well all y'all) new house pics today...Im in a pissy mood and when I get in a pissy mood I clean!!!!  so yea look for most all pics later this afternoon....

Critter Keeper  LMAO This is what I miss. Thanks Karen

Yeah I think I am the Crypt Keeper and Link does the critters!

Shannon, I don't care how cluttered or messy the house looks - that is normal when you move - dang, it's normal everyday here!  Yes, Shannon, I do change my mind about things when I have too long to think about it!

Mona, I don't think I want to see Johnny Depp in Sweeney Todd.  Might spoil my fantasies!

My dress was so pretty.  I do need to figure a way to post some pics.  Or, when my DIL gets her pics on her blog I''ll post the link.  Karen I hope your reception goes as well as mine did.  It was beautiful.  Could not have asked for a more wonderful night.

Jay,were you suggensting that it might take TWO Marines to handle one huband?  I hardly think so.  These boys are tough.  They can kill you with their bare hands in 8 to 13 seconds.

Karen, Im really weird about people seeing my house when its messy.  There are only about a handful of people that I feel comfortable w/ seeing my house like this.  Dont take offense, its not ment to be mean...I'm just really anal about certain things.  
About being indecisive, I am the same way.  If I have time to think about certain things I will change my mind about a dozen times.  I work/think better when Im on a time restriction.

Morning everyone! WOOHOO!!!! Karen and Jay are back!!!

Yes Link but we have no idea how big her husband is or his background!

 I want to see Sweeney Todd, but then again I have no FANTASIES  to spoil.

There is this lady that works for my sister, as a waitress. When my brother was down for Christmas we ate a lot where my sister works, and this lady was our waitress. We also know this lady from when she lived by us and when in-laws had their store.

Anyways... we realized she looked like the Crypt Keeper.... you know like off of Tales from the Crypt. I mean the woman looks like the walking dead and could be the female twin to the Crypt Keeper.

GALE - How ya bein???

 

Okay, here's my dress- and I promise I won't look like a Sea Hag when I wear it:

 

If anyone wants any snow from Edinburgh we've got plenty. Am not staying on long hubby has just called and said he's taking me to the pictures... we're going to see I am Legend... I'd rather have Will smith standing to attention at the end of the bed for inspection than Jack!

I HATE to wear dresses. I feel nekkid in them.

Gale didn't waist any time with her welcome back.

I think it is very pretty Karen.

A fantastic dress, very sexy, is it that colour?

My house is always a mess. And I do not make much of the mess. The only messes I make are in my bedroom, the rest of the house is hubby and the kids.

I did vacuum the living room Sunday night, maybe Saturday and had daughter clean up the living room. The next day I woke up and the living room was a MESS! Did not even look like it had been cleaned or even vacuumed.

I HATE cleaning, because no sooner then I sit down it is a mess again.

On that note... I have yet to start with my "brain to-do" list. I lay awake at night thinking of all the things I need to do and make a list in my forgetful head, and then I just do not feel like doing it when I wake up.

Yep, Sarah, it's that color.  My daughters bridesmaids are wearing teal.

I do still need to get some cleaning done. Hello to Gale and Sarah. Talk to you good people later.Glad you're back on board Jay! Talk to you soon!!

Its my fav. colour and the teal with really compliment it. I was going to suggest tit tape... but obviously from your 'strut' description that wouldnt do

Joonie, I like cleaning (OMH I cant believe I'd admitted that in public

SnowOwl, I love the signature line you have, but the new one is awesome too.  I figure you're never too young to be too old, and you're never too old to be too young!

Karen, may I suggest a mechanic for you? I hear Dr. 90210 does a great engine overhaul!

Well, my other option is installing nipple rings with guide wires up to my halo!

My christmas tree is still up. Good ole fake tree! I had daughter take the ornaments off of it last weekend, in hopes that once those got off, hubby would take the tree down.

And... WELL... the tree is still up and the other night daughter had the tree lit up.

I will admit... one year we had our tree up, until 2 months before christmas, and then took it down only to put it right back up. Then another year we kept it up until almost August.

I am missing my heated mattress pad. I am cold, but I have to stay out where I can keep an eye on the kids. As son and his cousin like to be mean to each other. I already had to break up 3 fights, well not fights spats... he pulled my hair, she hit me.

Just tell people you like to keep Christmas joy all year long.

Well my tree is still up, decorated and lights burning and it's a real tree.  I know when I touch it, all the needles will fall off.  I still have needles in my carpet from last year under the heat register where I can't reach them.

SHANNON - come clean my house for me!

Sounds like you need to stick the kids in the massager joonie!

Link, I am so glad you had a wonderful reception.  What a blessing these family milestones are. 

Well, I guess I better go work on cleaning my room and surprise hubby. Just if I do get it cleaned up and all... he is going to expect me to do more house work.

AND my son gave me an infrared camera that hooks into my computer and records, so with that an the equipment I already have, I'M GONNA CATCH ME A GHOST!

How bout you you guys, what did you get?

 LOL Karen the Ghost Buster! I be bustin out the door if I saw a ghost!

This is sooo nice having all ya'll on here at the same time...I haven't lost it...I'm still confused and behind as ever!

And from my family.... humm..... nothing. I did not even notice I did not get anything. My sister called me up and asked me if I noticed I did not get a present. I was like nope did not even notice. This was like last saturday when someone realized I did not get a present. We did name gifts, and well... I was left out... not surprising. My hubby did get 2 gifts from my side of the family. Pretty bad when someone who is not even blood related gets 2 gifts and I got NONE!

SO... I got a Ruby Tuesday gift card, that was one of my other sisters ex-hubby's gift cards, that my brother left since he got his name.

Yep... so .... that is what I got for Christmas.

Oh, and Santa brought my son a pound puppy!  Yep we have a new addition to our family dog pack.

He is a loveable mutt that was roaming out in the cold for days before the animal rescue caught him.  They have tried everything possible to find out who he belongs to, and no luck, and so they put him up for adoption.  He has fit into our home and with our 4 other dogs beautifully.  He seems very happy here!

How are your babies, Mona?

Karen, my son got a pound puppy right before Christmas too! He's an adorable little guy, but I'm still having trouble with the boy 'thing'...I've only had girl dogs. Did you see the pics of Mo's new pup Max? He's sooooo cute too!

Yeah, this fellow is an unneutered male and I'm putting an end to that REAL soon!

Yes, I did see Max and he is adorable.

How about a photo of your sons dog Gale?

Abi Kitty... is a pain in the bootay! She HATES me! Or is jealous of me & hubby's relationship. I am not sure. I just know she will attack me if I try to pet her, but if hubby pets her she loves on him and lets him, and if I try to pet her when he is in the room, she will let me but she looks like at any moment she will bite me.

She will jump up in hubbies lap and go to sleep, but she will not even let me touch her. She is in love with hubby. She follows him into the bathroom, or where ever he goes in the house. And meows when he goes outta the house.

Ungrateful cat! I feed her and change her kitty litter, and give her clean water and she is mean to me!

I have scratches and bite marks on my right hand from where she plays a little to rough with me. She does not bite hubby... ONLY ME!

I told hubby this morning... that I should have gotten a boy kitty, that way I would have a cat that liked me, like Abi Kitty likes hubby. He said too bad, the house would have smelt like cat piss.

I just wanted a cat of my own and now hubby has took her over.

The other thing is, maybe your hubby needed this.  Animals have an amazing way of tapping into our hidden needs and filling them.  He didn't even know how much she would mean to him - remember how hard he fought getting her?  Abi is doing something for him that will forever change him - for the better!  I love to sit back and watch the magic our pets bring to our lives.

Oh sorry it was firecrotch LMAO!! That is what some guy said about Lindsey Lohan. heheheeeGale, my mom always used to call it the dog's "Lipstick"! 

I am telling you... it is just weird.

No, she does not see me as her playmate. I stopped playing with her because she kept drawing blood when I would play with her.

I think she sees me as taking her man from her

She even follows hubby into the shower, she will stand in the shower with him and watch him take a shower. I am telling you... it is getting weird.

 

Be open and document anything out of the ordinary.  See if there are any patterns as to time of day, location.  If you feel someone is there, talk to him, and tell him how happy you are to be living there and that you promise to take care of the place for him.  That may be all it takes to calm things down.

If not I'll come ghost bustin'!

 Ya'll are cracking me up!

I got Max a litter box and litter  yesterday...he's killing me being pissy! He's used it twice already...cept he came through with kitty litter stuck on his nose.

You ghost hunters are scaring me...keep em up north and midwest please.

Joonie, I think maybe it's time to get your kitty spayed!  Her hormones are all screwed up, LOL!

See... I told ya Abi Kitty was in love with hubby. I keep missing with hubby and asking him if his affair with Abi Kitty is going ok.

What's dead time..I don't watch the show...I like Medium and Ghost Whisperer.

Karen, do you remember a show (YEARS ago) when we were little called 'Topper'? I don't remember much about it, but I remember my Mom watching it.

I love the smell of roses. I bought some lotion from the dollar tree that is rose scented. I rub it on my hands and sniff them.

Oh and I went to Bath & Body Works to get daughter some body spray... actually something girly she likes... and I bought some called moonlit path. I sprayed some on my shirt before we left the house one day and I kept smelling this smell, and I did not say anything and then... after a while I realized it was me that smelled so good. LMAO! I forgot I sprayed myself with it, and I would  only smell it when I moved a certain way and catch a wiff of it. I do not wear fragrances, and hubby does not like purfume or anything like that, it bothers his sinuses.

Here is a photo of my son Dan and his new buddy!

 

Yeah... I cannot wait for the new episodes that are coming up in a week or so. I am tired of seeing the one about the "dark man"... that one kinda creeps me out.

There was also another show on with Farfel the basset hound at the same time.  I can't remember the name of the show. 

Man... I so do not want to clean up my room. Iam cold. My fingers are popiscles again and my feet are froze and the kids will not sit still. I have to keep yelling at them to get away from the heater.

But I have never encountered anything evil.  I think it is usually just a trapped spirit that hasn't crossed over, or in the case of a residual haunt, it isn't even a true being, but kind of a "movie" being played over and over without any intelligence or awareness of today's world.

Ok will talk to ya'll later tonight.

I might even post pics of my new hair cut, if I dye it. I might chicken out on the dying it.

 

Oh and my hair is too dark of a brown to go blonde

The only thing I will warn you about is that if your hair is thinning, black hair kind of accentuates that.  It did with my son.  There is so much contrast between his pink scalp and the black hair, you can see the thinning. 

Karen

Ugh! I did not dye it, I chickened out. Thanks for the heads up on the black making thinning hair look even more thinning. My hair does not look like it is thinning out so bad since I got 8 inches cut off of it, Monday. My hair was stressing my roots out and making them thin. Now I cannot see my scalp as bad and my hair feels a lot lighter. I got a bunch of baby hairs growing in. I can feel them when I run my fingers thru my hair.

I figured if I dyed my hair black all the little baby hairs I got growing in being dyed black would make my hair look a little more fuller. I am not so sure now.

I still am not done with my room. It was pretty messy. And of course am cleaning under everything.

I also swept out from under my bed and found two ones and three ones for a GRAND TOTAL of five ones!! WOohoo!!


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