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Hi guys, I phoned around so many places to try and get some help for Cordy, I kept hitting brick walls, although I did get some names and numbers to contact tomorrow, she was so troubled and obviously unwell when I spoke to her that I was trying to get her some help for this evening, it is now 7.15pm here, I advised her to get her friend to look after Neve as I don't think it is good for Neve to see her mummy in so much pain and obvious anxiety, and to get herself to hospital, poor Cordy, she knows she needs help but doesn't want to lose Neve in the process. She did get her friend to pick up Neve thank God and I phoned the closest ambulance station, explained the situation, they were so helpful and said they would go and check on her and take her to hospital if it was necessary.  Then Cordy phoned me and told me they had phoned her and were on their way to see her, I am pretty sure she was ok about it, I didn't want to put her in a worse position, she said she was pleased and now maybe someone in the medical profession might help her.  I told her not to leave that hospital until she gets the help she needs, hopefully the carer respite people who will be contacting her tomorrow can organise meals on wheels and domestic and personal help, otherwise I can try a few more numbers, apparently her GP has to refer her for meals on wheels.  I can't believe the stupid GP hasn't done anything before now!!!!  It makes me so angry.  If Cordy had the strength and energy she would have tried harder herself but she has contacted all the right people to no avail.  Unbelieveable!  Anyhow I am on a mission now (so Cordy says) and   we had a bit of a laugh.  Just thought I would keep you posted, love Janie. Janie thanks for insisting that she go into the hospital.  I am so glad you did that for her and for Neve.  Thank you does not even cover it.  I love her so much and it kills me that she has tried to just out stubborn the disease!  So, thank you so much!Hi Shelley, please don't thank me, I only did what I should have, she is a lovely lady and I feel so much for her being on her own trying to manage everything and getting crap from people all the time.  Her stupid real estate agent was hassling her to get the house in order for an inspection, haven't these people got ears or eyes????  Hopefully now she will get some well deserved rest and she is content knowing that Neve is with her other friend called Jane who Cordy said is a warm loving person.  I just wish I wasn't ill as well and I could have headed down there to help her for a while.  Never mind God is good and I am sure he will take care of her and Neve.  Thanks again Shelly, take care. Love Janie. Yes, Janie, God is good.  He sent you to Cordy to help her.  You're a wonderful friend and she needs that as much as she needs medical intervention.  Bless your heart.  Yes, "God is indeed good!" And He knows those who not only believe in His teachings but also those who Live His Teachings.  Our world is so blessed by you janiefx.  Gentle Hugs for you, too.


Janie, I know you don't want thanks, but you most certainly deserve them.  We all have our struggles, and for you to tackle some of Cordy's by making these contacts is something very special.  I am glad she is getting some help and that you are there for her. Thank YouShe's real lucky to have a friend like you. I'll be watching for more updates.

 
Please send my best to Cordy.
Everyone should be so blessed as to have a friend like you Janie.  I'm glad you're there for CordyOh Janie you're such a doll!!! I e-mailed Cordy some links and phone #'s I'd found for her last year. I'll try to see if I can dig them up again and maybe pass them to you. Who knows, you may have already called, but what the heck, right?
 
Let Cordy know we love her very much and to hang in there!!! Send our hugs!!!
Nope, damn. I must have PMed it all to her. Which means it's long gone now. :( Poo-Poo.
 
I'm sorry!! Maybe Cordy saved it somewhere? If you think of it, maybe you can ask her? If not, oh well. You're a resourceful gal!! *hugs*
Thank you for everything you're doing to help, Janie. You are truly a wonderful friend and I'm glad you're close enough to help out. Please let Cordy know she's in my thoughts.  What a good friend you are. Everyone needs to have a friend like you around. Janie, you are a precious friend. I'm so glad you are near enough to know who to call for her. I've been gone for a couple of days so I'm not even up to date on how she is, but last time I wrote her, I was quite concerned about her. No one should have to suffer the depression she was having.
Thank you for being such a dear friend and wonderful person! Please give her my love when you speak to her.
Much love, Nini
Thanks everybody, the great thing about AI is that we all care for each other and can rely on each other, which I know gets up some peoples noses, I don't know if its jealousy or something but as happened to me last week, I am waiting for someone to say I did the wrong thing,  but we are what we are and we can't help it if we become friends and care about each other, so those of you who do get blasted for this and that by some of the ogres on this board, just ignore them, God knows what we really are inside and out and we don't have to be told to cleanse our souls and preach to people how we are clean souled and they are not.  Love to all my AI friends and I appreciate all your support.  Love Janie.XXX

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