OT:Q: I owe some money | Arthritis Information

I owe some money to a certain someone from a few years back. When I look up the address it is different online than what it used to be. How do I find out wha tthe addy is? SHould I continue researching different address pages or write the address it used to be.

According to the online address it is a different town as the mailing address it used to be.

Any ideas??????

Why not try calling the numbers and talk to the person?Weeeeeell, not so sure........it was kind of an argument at the time. I have come to learn and believe differently. I suppose that would be the thing to do. I cannot pay much each month cause of my income and student loans, but I am sure any amount would be appreciated, I think.Well instead of stirring anything up right now, why not put aside money each month until you have saved the full amount, and then contact them? Who could be mad then?Well it is quite a bit of money so it would take me awhile to save up for it......I may call and just send a portion of it.

I have no idea, hope they are not mad.....oh geesh that would be the pits.

jodejjr2008-03-25 16:37:20i would call whomever it is up and say hey look I know we had our disagreements but I want to pay you back the money I owe you, I can give you such and such a month and see how it goes from thereI'll plus one on that straight and honest approach. I once told someone my circumstances and they just said to forget about it. Money isn't everything. Well I need to pay it for nothing other than to clear my conscience. I was wrong.

When I owe money, I pay it. I am an honest person and it is weighing heavily on my mind. This person paid for things for me, things I needed. It was unfair for them.

I will figure something out. Thanks for your input it has been helpful.

jodejjr2008-03-26 09:25:31Getting up the courage to make the call....I am just scared they will scream at me....and I mean no harm. I was lied to and I have to make this up to them...even if they never ever like me or trust me again.

This entire circumstance has been my destruction from the very beginning. I was so totally set up. Oh well, enough of my probs.Well I called, no answer, left a message. The call has never been returned. I guess I will just forget about it. Thanks for your input. jodejjr2008-03-29 08:48:03You should not give up trying to find this person . Apparently you feel bad about

not paying this person back or you would not have posted it . Don't let it sit on

your conscious you will only feel bad .

There is someone who owes me alot of money but he calls about once a month

to let me know he has not forgotten but does not have the money now .

I will wait until he does .

I say you just put away what u can and then when u have a nice amount, send it to the person. That would be a nice surprise for the person.[QUOTE=kelstev]I say you just put away what u can and then when u have a nice amount, send it to the person. That would be a nice surprise for the person.[/QUOTE]

Great idea !!

YOU GUYS! ...lol I do not know the correct address, that is why I needed the call back.......I am not sending money to an uncertain addresswithout word that yes I live here....yadayada.

Other than driving up in the driveway and handing it straight to them..........I need the call back!

lol

I think if you explain to the exactally what you wrote it would be alright. I mean you are willing to pay, tell them you were wrong, and also admit that you understand they may never trust you again. That is a big step. I can't imagine anyone turning you away when you put it like that.

Just tell them that and that you have no intention on "bothering" them just sending them money you feel you owe them. Then leave the ball in their court so to speak.

I hope they call you back.

All great ideas.

I am the one with the "trust issues" though concerning this person, but as time goes on you have to forgive and forget, or attempt to. lol obviously they are not too worried about it. And yes it does still bothers me. It wa sa total mess and it has ruined a huge par tof me but that is life.

Thanks so much for the suggestions.