if it was all mind over matter wouldn't i be feeling fantastic today? it is absolutely beautiful here today and i am still in my pjs. it is 1:45 pm. i need to rake the front yard it is full of pine needles. i need to walk the dog. i need to run a few errands. and here i sit..... why? what is wrong with me? why do i have to hurt? tomorrow it is scheduled to rain. alot of times i can feel the pressure. i just want to do what a normal person does. sometimes...... Doesn't matter! Never mind! it's all mind over matter! that is what my full blooded marine husband thought. he would even tell me pain was good for you. but my doctor told him you would have to have a mighty BIG MIND to get over that (RA) MATTER. just thought i would explain my title. i have a pretty little mind today because i am not getting over my pain matter. That's okay. Everybody has an off day. Or two or three. Just don't let it get the better of you. :)I feel like killing people... ok throttling them, when anyone says you can just learn to