I still feel like crap, every joint hurts, but I am holding fast to staying away from Pred. and my Rheumy agrees. He stopped my MTX, but it's only been a week and it usually takes 3weeks to leave my system. Rheumy said to call asap if I have an increase in pain, at all and we'll deal with it until I can start embrel again.
Sometimes getting away can be a good solution if you can find some peace and quiet to focus on solutions. It can be ovewhelming to try to solve everything at once, so try to take one at a time - Your health needs to come first. Can your doctor recommend a counselor to help sort through everything? While a little odd to have 4 interviews, you are their #1 pick. You must have a good relationship with your son. While my sons enjoy my company, I'm not sure either would enjoy 18 hours in a car with me.
Hope things look brighter for you this morning.Owie, I am so sorry for all your pain (physical and mental) Maybe you could get a Medrol Pak, it does help, dont know for how long, but its good for a few days anyway. Please try not to cry and know we are all thinking of you.
OMGoodness...you have alot going on... no wonder you feel poorly!! I think our mental outlook has alot to do w/ our pain ....Stop and "do nothing." (Give yourself a chance to calm down!)
Take a deep breath.
Exercise!
Make sure you're eating healthy.
Meditate, do yoga or perform another relaxation ritual like prayer or journaling.
Lie down and rest for a few minutes (it's refreshing!).
Stretch! (Simple stretching can really do wonders.)
Get enough sleep.
I'll be thinking of you.....
Thank you for your advice. I'm a very take charge person, so for the time being, I am going to get a journal and write down all your wonderful suggestion as my checklist for feeling better. All my financial independence is riding on getting this job. I get almost ,000 in chid support I never see. He took all our income tax return - I didn't get a dime. We got our stimulus check and he kept all of that as well. I started selling on E-bay to try to earn a b my own income and things just aren't selling. money must be tight for everyone, because what I sell is beautiful Liz Claiborne clothing - it's pretty much all my parents buy me... Since I have lost so much weight I went through my clothes and am selling about half of each size I no longer wear and keeping the extra because I know I will be going up and down with this disease. I have no money of my own and can't even buy milk when we need it is wrong. I think hubby is doing it to keep me with him becasue I cannot afford to move out and also he needs every penny for bills. He bitches every time I buy something for the kids, but ,000 child support is partially for clothing too. I buy all my clothes at Goodwill and have found some real gems there -lot with the tags attached and only on 99cent day. For son's high school graduation, I got a goregeous dress for .49at Ross. He gets mad, because he doesn't want me buying ANYTHING. How can I go from a size 14-16 to a 2-4 and not buy clothes? I'm going to GOODWILL for pete's sake, not Macy's which we are used to.