Gutted, Devostated, Angry, Hurting, Lost | Arthritis Information
Hi there everyone.
Thank you ALL for your thoughts, prayers and kind words.
My Father Allan passed away on 8.08.08
He suffered a 2 nmajor heart attacks, renal failure and various other complications as a result of infection and septacemia. He fought on life support for four days from Wednesday to Saturday.
I am hurting soooo much.
Someone has ripped my heart and insides out. The pain is unbearable.
Love,
Ally
Oh Ally I am so very sorry! I will keep you and your family in my prayers for strength.I am so very sorry. I wish I could give you a big hug!!!!Oh I am so sorry! I lost my father too and I know how you feel. It is going to take a long time to come to terms with it. From your posts I get the idea that you had a very close relationship with him as I did with mine. All you can do for now is put one foot in front of the other. Please come here for support when you need it. You'll be in my prayers for strength.Hi Ally...I'm so sorry about your Dad.
Im sorry ally...my thoughts and prayers will be with your family
Oh, Ally Sweetie, I'm so sorry about your loss. It is so difficult to lose your parents. There seems to be a special grief and sense of loss with our parents.
I have been through many losses in my lifetime, but the loss of my Mother and Brother hurt in a way, I thought I'd never be able to accept it. But time has passed and it has become easier to accept that they are no longer here in body. But I feel the presence of their spirits every day of my life. My brother died two years ago and I know he is with me all the time. I truly do feel him here beside me.
I can't tell you that you will not hurt...you will. And you do need to grieve for him. But the special bond you had when he was here will stay with you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. May your Father rest in the palm of God's hand.
Much love, Nini
Oh Ally, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is the worse pain. But atleast he is in heaven and will be there for you. He will always be with you. Much Love to you and hugs so sorry.Ally, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss...
Parents are so important to us and we cherish them.. I know you will miss your dad, as I miss my mom....
We're here for you if you want to talk ...
I completely understand how you're feeling.
(hugs)
Sorry about your dad. I lost my dad on 8-18-02 which is tomorrow and I still miss him so much. He raised me and my four sisters while my mom went on her merry way partying it up. I too was really close with my dad. It's going to hurt for a little while but you'll eventually be able to cope with it. My prayers are with you and the rest of your family. May God give you comfort during your griefing process.
take care
My deepest sympathies to you, Ally. It is clear you love him deeply and have been his warrior throughout his struggles.
When my father died after a long illness, I found my greatest comfort in knowing that his spirit was now free of that old worn out body, and he was now pain-free. I hope you can find that which brings you peace and comfort.
I can't imagine the grief you are experiencing right now. I feel so bad for you. I really hope you're able to find comfort and peace through this painful time, and I hope that you have a lot of fond memories stored away to look back upon. Could you share one or two with us?
For me, that always helps when one of my children asks to hear a story of their grandma.
I'd love to hear one about your dad.
Oh Ally, I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. I cannot imagine the grief you are going through, as I have not dealt with the death of a parent, but know that we are praying for you and your family, and hopefully your pain will ease with the happy memories you two shared.
Hugs to you sweetie, Deb
I am so very sorry to hear your Dad lost his battle Ally, and I can relate to all you are feeling right now. It is very hard to watch a loved one suffer terribly. I had been praying for your Dad and keeping you both in my thoughts and wondered how he was doing.
My condolences to you and your family, and as others have said, do come visit here when you want/need to. There will always be hugs waiting for you here.
Love to you xxx Lyn
Yes Ally, the pain is unbearable, am so sorry you lost your dad. It is always easy to say at least they are not suffering now.....but you never want to lose your parents and even though the pain gets easier you never get over the loss......my prayers and thoughts are with you. love RAAlly ~~ loving thoughts and prayers for you and your family ~~ CathyAlly,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Hiking_gal
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.Ally,
I know there are no words that can stop the pain that you feel. So many of us have felt the same feelings and so know what you feel. Just keep in mind that Dad lives and runs thru your veins, mind and heart.
LEV
Dear Ally
My deepest sympathies to you in your loss. My Mom died the same day as
your Dad: 8-08-08. It's hard, but we draw comfort from the knowledge that
she's as free as a bird, and I'm sure your Dad is too
With kind thoughts
So sorry to hear about your father...sending thoughts and prayers your way,
Kelly
Prayers for you and your family. Just remember that as much as you loved your dad, he also loved you and would want you to go on with your life with loving memories of him. I was told this when a beloved family member died and it was helpful to me.
Jan
Thinking about you, hung in there it will get better with time.
Ally,
I'm sorry about your father. I lost mine a year ago, right before father's day. It was hard watching him suffer and waiting for him to leave us. I know how you feel.
Hugs and prayers,
Cathy
I am so very sorry. Lamy deepest sympathies to you and appletown...
soo sorry for your loss..
may the spirits help time pass over you, so your wounds feel less
Very sorry for your loss. Anyone who has lost a parent knows how terrible it can be, such a feeling of loss. When my dad died I was sad for myself but very happy for him because he was no longer in pain.
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