And please try not to worry about the kids.....easy for me to say I know but children understand much more than we give them credit for. And they are resilient.
God this all sounds trite and I dont mean it to.
Please take care of your SELF. And keep checking in here when you are away if you can.
Love to you Deb...be strong and clear your head awhile. You will be amazed at what reveals itself.
xxxxxxxxx Lyn
I went through a seperation and a divorce years ago....but it wasn't anything like you're facing. It was difficult; but after it was all over and I had a chance to get on my feet; guess what? My RA got tons better! It didn't go away of course; but once I was able to consentrate on myself a while and become happy again my symptoms became much more manageable. Stress is horrible for RA.
I'll keep you and your children in my prayers. Good Luck!
Oh Deb...I'm so sorry. With all you are going through physically and now you have to deal with this. I can't even begin to imagine.
I'm with Lyn. Everything I start to type seems so trite.
Just take care Deb and do check in here as you can.
You will be in my thoughts.
Deb,
Hang in there girl. I don't know if you are a believer in God. But the Word tells me that all things work for the good of the Lord. You may not see what is in your future but you can be assured that God has a plan. I am recently seperated and have been back and forth for almost a year. It has nearly drove me crazy but what I hold on to is that I may not know what lies ahead and why things happened the way that it did but God sure does and He is in control and will not forsake me if I trust and call on HIM. I will pray for you, your kids and the situation whatever it may be. Hope that you are not offended by my post but feel led to share with you. Have a wonderfully blessed day my friend. I may not know you but I care about you. Laura
How old are the kids? Are they going to stay with there dad? Well you just get the help you need and try not to worry. I am sorry you are going threw this. If you can get the help you need then take it. Check in with us when you can. We will remember to pray for you and we will be here when you get back.Thank you all for taking the time to respond. I am a believer in God and I have prayed about this for a very long time. I know it is the right thing to do. This is actually my second marriage and my children are hubby's step-children. They are 17 and 19 years old and can handle themselves. If hubby goes nuts I will instruct them to go to a pre selecteed safe place with our dogs. Thanks to all of you for your prayers and support
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