I am in "grandmommy mode" for now and lovin' it! I would complain /express what I am experiencing about this and that and my RA or damage of the RA but I always get in trouble when I do...my sis reads on here and is giving me a hard time right now, so I keep my mouth shut...would be nice to share the info but can't.
I'm so happy for you and the new baby, however, I would NOT allow sis to prevent you from giving or getting the support you need here. You shouldn't allow her to "get you in trouble" You need support, not a hard time from your own sis. Shame on her. Obviously, she doesn't "get it" when it comes to RA. Grrrr, this makes me angry. Maybe think about changing your name, etc. , Nah, she would figure that out in no time...