I debated putting OT, but I don't think this blog really is. #10 is my favorite:
http://distractible.org/2008/10/30/dealing-with-hardship/
#12 is good to know, too.
Try this if that link doesn't work:
http://trusted.md/feed/items/dr_rob_lamberts/2008/10/30/dealing_with_hardship