Cordy.... | Arthritis Information

Empty your box.  I need to tell you something.bumpSorry, Link...just got up here in Oz. I've made room in box.  Thanks so much, SnowOwl. Neve and I miss Mum dreadfully. Grandma was Neve's 'soft place' with my RA too - they would color and chat, Neve would tell her all her worries. Dad is completely lost, they were married 35 years. We are all feeling rather emotional and raw as you can imagine.

In the past few months I have been able to recognise what a great Mum I am to Neve regardless of RA and what it does to my life. Thanks, SnowOwl, you actually helped a lot with that process for me by telling me wonderful stories about your mother. Thank you so much. 
Cordy...I have missed you! I am so sorry about your mom. Please give yourself a gentle hug from me.

How is little Neve doing? She does have a great mom, and a strong one too. Thanks, Rebecca for your empathy and concern. My mother was the heart of her family...as most great mothers are.

My Dad was completely lost at first. We found he wasn't taking his medication as 'Mum did that'. When it was time for a pill, she gave it to him. And when Mum died we found out their phone was nearly cut off as 'Mum did that', she paid all the bills. My SIL, Jill and my brother Mick has Dad all sorted now. They were a tower of strength and still are. It has all brought us closer as a family. My brother and Jill, at last, this year have ''gotten" my RA completely now. The day after Mum passed away I had to go for my first Rituxan infusion of my third round. It could not be postponed or risk me flaring. It's a huge organisational nightmare. So in between Mum dying and the funeral I am doing two infusions...well, great. I'm glad you are finding things a bit lighter now Cordy.  I'm so sorry about your mum.  I lost my dad 26 years ago an still miss him terribly.  It is amazing how something as tragic as this can bring prople closer than they ever were.  I hope things continue to improve for you both with your RA and with a closer relationship with the family and their understanding of what you and Neve are coping with. have you thought about moving in with your dad?  it seems it could be beneficial to you both.No, I hadn't actually Buckeye, I hadn't looked that far ahead yet.

Dad is now fiercely independent. Cordelia I am so very sorry to hear about your mum's passing, my condolences to you and your family.