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LOLOLOLOLOL    Hey Joonie...Lyn.....Wow..I go to bed and wake up...cant leave you two alone for one minute can I......?????? What happened to make AA come back on here ??  I didn't know AA was a MAN!I think this whole thing is so sad so many of us are here for surrport and lately all you see is a person saying bad things about people. Come on all lets all try to get along and if AA is making all this troble have her leave the broad. It is not fair for the rest of us that needs surrport for our RA. When I came to this forum there was so much love and surrport here. Angel58 Angel....we have tried to ask her to leave nicely, its why we are all where  we are today...there is no moderator as our moderator is too busy earning $ out of sick peoples misery to come on here and help us.She did leave, a couple of times, and each time she came back and worst than the time before. She is always soo over us whackos/yahoos that she comes back to us. I think she actually loves us all and wants to be our friend, but she just has a hard time playing well with others. Or maybe she does not know how to make friends? Either way... we would not care if she stayed as long as she would not be so foul-mouthed, and spew hatered, and just be a nice honeypie that I know she can be. I have seen it first hand on other boards, she can be nice and say things like "Holy Moly" or "Oh crap!"

Ladies wouldn't it be best to just not respond to anymore of these threads and posts?  It just keeps it going on and on.  Just don't respond so we can put an end to this.  I think everyone is letting their pain  get the worst of them.  Let someone be the first one to be the bigger person and not respond and move on.[QUOTE=AudaciousOrdrey]That was not very nice [/QUOTE] Awww... now she is saying crap vs the other nasty word. That is a start! I know you can do it! Keep up the good work!Oh thats okay Pin, I am having a bad day today myself. But I don't want to take it out on anybody here. I have so much on my mind with my daughter having cancer and I have been so sick. I like to see joy on here. There is so many bad things that go wrong in our lives and on here I always thought we all share the pain and suffering  that we have everyday with RA. I have so bad for a long time I don't know what it would be to be normal. Have a good day all of you and hope everything settles down. JoanSorry you have been sick Joan, How is your daughter doing? Have you managed to spend some time with her...its very hard for you I know....There will be joy on here again..this is just  blip in the world of internet boards....I am slowly losing the will though , but too many genuinely nice folk on here to give up on them. I really hope things get better for you and I am thinking of you and your daughter.

Take care

Lisa xx

Lisa, My daughter just got done with her chemo now she gets a month rest and then unto radiation for 6 weeks every day. This has taken a toll on her body. Right now she is really sick from just having her chemo this week. But the last one. That poor girl lost her hair had a very serve rash all over her body with blisters and lost all her fingers nails. All because of her chemo. But now thats over. She has a hard time trying to take care of her child. some days. I was there 3 times with her and it was very hard on me. I have been in a flare for awhile fighting high blood pressure. I am on 3 blood pressure pills now to control it. My daughter knows I am not in good shape. But I try my best to do anything I can for her here. When you live 1000 miles away it is hard. you know lisa sometimes we have to vent. 

Our feelings. I tryed to post a few pictures here but it don't work. Well you take care Joan

Oh Joan I am so sorry but vent away anytime you need to. It must be awful for her to go through all of this and look after her child...the chemo is so evil with what it does to  a person but if its going to be what cures her then it will be her savior in the end.

Its got to be heartbreaking for you with being ill and so far. I wish I could help you.

Take care

xx

So, like is there a lesbian message board where the 2 of you can go and carry out this sick attraction you have for each other? Or maybe a bitches anon. or something? It is possible for adults to be SELF MODERATED. All it takes is responsible adults. Something obviously in short supply here.

Well Reader, that ought to calm things down and bring peace. . .LOL! I've come to the conclusion that there is not much hope of there ever being peace here again and that is such a shame too. This used to be a wonderful RA board where you could come and get really good advice and support. I think that the members of this board can overcome the crimes of one lone poster.

 

If we allow one poster to run us off one at a time by illegally posting our personal information, then this forum will fail.  I think we are all bigger people that this.

 

I don't blame Gimpy one bit if she never returns.  I am saddened by the great posters who have already left because of these inhumane posts. 

 

I will not be threatened by an anonymous poster, I will not be run off by an anonymous poster, I will not quit this forum because of an anonymous poster.

 

This is the time for us to pull together as a group, and show that we can overcome this incidence.  We need this forum, we need each other's help and support.  And we need to remember that sick souls need our prayers for their recovery and a full and love-filled life.

 

I hope that collectively, we who have remained can pull together to weather this terrible public rape of OUR forum.  This forum is what we make it. 

 

 

Amen.

And I am sorry for some of my stronger posts when we were really going at it, JSNM.  This board is like a sisterhood (sorry guys, but the girls do seem to talk more Jasmine, thank you.  CathyAw, that was very nice Jasmine.  You rock!  And you too Cathy, for being so gracious!awww... that's truly sweet, girls..   I mean it..   WTG, Cathy and Jas!!

 

Listen... I hear kumbayah in the distance  

"Listen... I hear kumbayah in the distance  

 

Babs, I just spit coffee all over the screen, and got yelled at.  Stan's wiping off the screen with his special screen cleaner as I type, too funny!!!!

 

Cathy, I couldn't agree more.  Lindy

oh Stan.. I'm sorrrrryyyy!!!!

 

 

Really? You folks can actually make it through 8 pages of this crap? I just scanned a couple couple post on each page and got bored. I'm all for drama....but this kind of crap is just stupid. [QUOTE=Lovie]Really? You folks can actually make it through 8 pages of this crap? I just scanned a couple couple post on each page and got bored. I'm all for drama....but this kind of crap is just stupid. [/QUOTE]

 

Hi all,

I have not been around much lately...all fighting and negativity get to me so then I disappear for a while. I have enough on my 'plate' without being involved in all this. I have no energy units to waste.

And no, unfortunately I don't find that just ignoring and not reading certain threads the answer. The dark and yucky energy surrounding them permeates the whole board in my opinion.

I have been an active member of this board a long time now and therefore I have known Joonie for a long time also.

Like all human being Joonie has her faults and foibles, we all do. She struggles with certain  areas of her life often repeatedly. Most of us do that also.

She can be stubborn and strong willed but also incredibly caring and thoughtful.

She is not perfect nor is her life.

I remember though, her helping one particular person on here - a young father with RA who marriage had broken up because his illness. His whole family had imploded because of the impact of this illness.

Joonie was the person here who 'picked up' that this man was in trouble and considering suicide, a place if we are honest, where most of us have been at some point in our journey with RA.

Joonie realised he was in trouble when no one else did and spent over 24 hours talking this person through that place. Because of Joonie caring and empathetic nature, her willingness to walk alongside him, he came through and out the other side of what he had been facing as a solution to the challenges of this disease.

Calling anyone, no matter WHO they are 'trailer trash' is, in my opinion, absolutely not okay. Calling anyone anything that is meant as an insult is not okay. You are making it clear that Joonie is 'less than' because of where she lives/lived.

Whether Joonie lives in a trailer park or not is NOT at all relevant to this forum and what we do here.

Neve's paternal Grandfather lives in a 'trailer park'. Everyone there is a permanent resident. It's all he needs. He doesn't need a big space to maintain. What I've noticed about where Pop lives is that there is an amazing community of people there. They are like a family. They support each other, help each other, have BBQ's together. The atmosphere is one of belonging and acceptance.

I shall have to let Pop know he is 'less than', because he lives in a 'trailer park'. He will laugh.

Meanwhile, why don't you AA try to find the 'grown up' part of yourself and see what you can do with it.

Yes, I know it is best 'NOT' to respond to this stuff, I know, I know...
Cordelia2009-02-07 21:03:31[QUOTE=Cordelia] 
Calling anyone, no matter WHO they are 'trailer trash' is, in my opinion, absolutely not okay. Calling anyone anything that is meant as an insult is not okay. You are making it clear that Joonie is 'less than' because of where she lives/lived.

Whether Joonie lives in a trailer park or not is NOT at all relevant to this forum and what we do here.
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I absolutely agree because God doesn't make trash.

Our Joonie has tough skin! (Not that it makes it OK for anyone to say unkind words) She stood her ground- she can take it as well as dish it- most people can only dish. I admire her tenacity!
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