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But I did think, that you phats, was referring to my post on the AP'ers thread. I would have to have to explain that one. It was not meaning that she was a whore, you can be a striper and not a whore. She just cant help herself...lolol Auds....give it up girl, things will go much better for you if you do.

yep.. Oops you DID do it again.
Why are you putting that woman's name on this forum again?
According to PHATS, "Lisa says what she says and doesn't go back and edit it out, she stands behind what she says right or wrong."

That hasn't always been the case. And I will say again, I wasn't hiding from my original post. Nearly 100 views and a response from Audrey let me know my post had been seen, and as I stated in my edit, the last sentence wasn't necessary.    "Lisa" doesn't have a conscience about what she does to disrupt the forum, therefore she wouldn't necessarily care about editing her posts. She doesn't need to, she just starts more nasty threads to get more attention. Hmmm. Boy, there's somebody to stick up for and defend.

PHATS, you go right ahead and support the local board terrorist for having the courage to stand behind what she says right or wrong. And while you are at it, be sure to chastise the poster who tried to address concerns with the troublemaker privately so as not to disrupt the board further. That speaks volumes about you PHATS, it really does.

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graciesmom2009-05-10 20:32:04Babs....someone mentioned Carl Sagan somewhere here today, I mentioned Audrey. Her name is on the WWW as is Carls. Mine will be too, and yours. Ok, Auds may not be as famous as Carl Sagan ( although I think shes trying out for some award ) and I talked with people on the net today and used full names. Salman Rushdie and Joe Satriani were the topics of conversation actually.

Sorry you have been offended by my putting her name here but I need to say when it comes to ' that woman', I personally, have no problem.

Lyn
I might point out that a member used my full name when calling me a thief.
Ok, so I had it on display........................
Um, since when did this become about me? It's interesting that you are trying to deflect your bad behavior by bashing me. I don't know who Audrey is or who Lisa is. I don't condone anyone "terrorizing" anyone on this forum and quite frankly, I'm offended that you used those words. OH, BTW, the reason I haven't responded to any of your posts is I either didn't have anything to add or your questions were already answered. A prime example is your Remicade post, I don't know anything about that, so why would I post something. Furthermore, I don't know why you are getting your drawers in a wad when you say you know who "lisa" is and what she does, why get worked up over it?

PS: I don't care if you don't like me or what I post, makes no difference to me.

Phats

[QUOTE=graciesmom]According to PHATS, "Lisa says what she says and doesn't go back and edit it out, she stands behind what she says right or wrong."

That hasn't always been the case. And I will say again, I wasn't hiding from my original post. Nearly 100 views and a response from Audrey let me know my post had been seen, and as I stated in my edit, the last sentence wasn't necessary.    "Lisa" doesn't have a conscience about what she does to disrupt the forum, therefore she wouldn't necessarily care about editing her posts. She doesn't need to, she just starts more nasty threads to get more attention. Hmmm. Boy, there's somebody to stick up for and defend.

PHATS, you go right ahead and support the local board terrorist for having the courage to stand behind what she says right or wrong. And while you are at it, be sure to chastise the poster who tried to address concerns with the troublemaker privately so as not to disrupt the board further. That speaks volumes about you PHATS, it really does.

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[QUOTE=LyndeeNZ]Babs....someone mentioned Carl Sagan somewhere here today, I mentioned Audrey. Her name is on the WWW as is Carls. Mine will be too, and yours. Ok, Auds may not be as famous as Carl Sagan ( although I think shes trying out for some award ) and I talked with people on the net today and used full names. Salman Rushdie and Joe Satriani were the topics of conversation actually.

Sorry you have been offended by my putting her name here but I need to say when it comes to ' that woman', I personally, have no problem.

Lyn
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famous people are spoken of all the time... when someone may or may not have done something wrong... putting their name out there with statements of your beliefs and their wrong doing..... CAN set YOU up for something along the lines of LIBEL? ?SLANDER ??   It's not necessary to put her name...........

and my name isn't anywhere on this site that anyone can see except admin..and should THEY name me in a detrimental manner....... THEY would be prepared to suffer potential consequences.... so attack if you choose, Lyndee........ but if I were you I'd edit the name out..

and yes, Bodak.. YOU put your own name there.. big difference... Plus it was so positive!!
Phats, I am not trying to deflect anything. If I was trying to disguise my "bad behavior", I would have removed my post altogether. I didn't start this thread, Audrey/Lisa did, and she posted a private message that I sent to her for all of the board to see. I reached out to her in an appropriate manner, she responded by mocking me on a public forum. It was well within my right to respond to her. And, I don't regret it. I edited my post because, as I stated, the last sentence wasn't necessary. However, after your first response, I replied and restated what I had deleted and tried to clarify it. That post is still there for all of the world to see. So see, no deflecting. I own my words.

Typically, I am not a person who gets involved in the board drama. I stay out of the places where people are fighting. I have been here for a long time. Lurked for a full year before I posted. I don't post often, but enough that most of the board regulars probably know my name. Those who do know of me know I don't snark. However, I won't just sit back and take it if someone wants to challenge me or be snarky. I will respond in kind.

Maybe you weren't paying attention last fall, but Audrey pretty much took over the board with her ugly and insulting comments. My so called drawers aren't in a "wad". Geez, it's a message board. The reason I am irritated with your response to me is due to the fact that you always seem to insert yourself where opportunities to chastise a poster exist. I don't know you, you don't know me, all we can do is judge from what we post. If you choose to judge me because I removed a sentence from a post which contained words that weren't terribly kind from my post then so be it. Again I say, that speaks volumes about you and only reinforces what I think of you. And what I think of you is that you LOVE to call out people and look for opportunities to do so. That is my perception of you based upon where I have seen you post and insert yourself into threads where you add no information or support, just harsh words.

There are plenty of people here who respond to what I post. If you are not one of those people, it makes no matter. But I am addressing you in this thread based upon the way you inserted yourself again where you had nothing to add but a snarky comment.

Go ahead and be offended by my calling Audrey a terrorist, I don't care. The fact is, she DID terrorize this board last fall, to the point of being ridiculous. I am not the only one who holds this opinion.

I am not going to spend any more time regarding this. You have a great day, or not, it is really of no consequence to me.

Lisa0nline is a Coward. She cant reveal herself and say things to others on here in her real name. She hides behind her fake screen name so that she saves face. She may be  Audrey, she may not, I think others on here use the Lisa0nline name maybe as a diversion so we think its her.
Audrey was a nasty piece of work, she went from forum to forum on all sorts of websites causing havoc, calling people names , using foul language. One website was closed down due to her causing mayhem. So if shes being attacked and accused she only has herself to blame..Cant keep going around crying wolf..as eventually the wolf gets you.

Phats- Lisa doesnt stand behind whats wrong or right, she doesnt care either way
This is so "effin" funny! I am never and I repeat never surprised by the amount of people who claim to be the very ones NOT causing trouble...............when in reality by responding to my posts you not only contribute once, you keep it going and going and going.

This was what I got this morning from prickcushion, the biggest contributor of trouble on this board:

Private Message

COWARD

We have a names for people like you in UK ... plonker , wally but most of all Coward comes to mind...You see, myself and others dont hide behind another name when we have something to say, we arent scared to say what we believe in but you are. you cant do it in your real name, you have to abuse people and talk the biggest load of rubbish and then come on here being all sweet and nice so you dont lose face...Well Joonie might have a good idea of who you are but I dont care who the heck you are, you are a nothing, a reject, a fool a COWARD. Go back to the hole you crawled out of.

I almost lost an entire mouthful of coffee on this one! What a LYING bitch she is. This is her guidleline for life on this forum, "you have to abuse people and talk the biggest load of rubbish and then come on here being all sweet and nice so you dont lose face", that's her alright. When she starts losing an argument or everyone starts ganging up on her she signs on as her husband and if that doesn't work she'll make up a name, register, and actually come on here (as someone else) defending herself by saying stuff like, "I used to lurk on here but after reading all you people attacking this poor woman I'm not about to stay here any longer", as if people are going to stop because of that. MARTYR, please

I remember Audrey and Lisa last year, why do you think I chose this name, they did tend to get your goats on here and have again. You go ahead and keep thinking I'm her/them, it will deflect any further effort to find out who I am. But God help us all if either one of them come in here and read this, WW3 is liable to start.

Now I'm off to read more of your bullsh*t.
[QUOTE=Mrs Pincushion]Lisa0nline is a Coward. She cant reveal herself and say things to others on here in her real name. She hides behind her fake screen name so that she saves face. She may be  Audrey, she may not, I think others on here use the Lisa0nline name maybe as a diversion so we think its her.
Audrey was a nasty piece of work, she went from forum to forum on all sorts of websites causing havoc, calling people names , using foul language. One website was closed down due to her causing mayhem. So if shes being attacked and accused she only has herself to blame..Cant keep going around crying wolf..as eventually the wolf gets you.

Phats- Lisa doesnt stand behind whats wrong or right, she doesnt care either way
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WELL IF THAT'S REALLY HOW YOU FEEL PRICKCUSHION, HOW ABOUT I GO JOIN A BUNCH OF FORUMS, TELL A BUNCH OF REALLY NASTY LIES ABOUT YOU AND SEND THEM ALL HERE TO READ YOUR BS AND POST ABOUT WHAT A LOON YOU ARE? AND SINCE YOU'RE SO FULL OF INVESTIGATIVE POWER I have never been anyone else other than pincushion, pin cushion, Mrs Pincushion or I came on here under my husbands name and he also posted here......so please fill me in on who I have been on here as .This should be interesting....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont give a damn if you are Lisa, Audrey or some old sleezebag from the local bar.

Yes I did PM you to keep it off here but you just cant help yourself can you....
One problem Lisa...I dont belong to a bunch of forums trying to start trouble so if you join forums telling lies about me, I dont really think they are going to give a damn....grow up!!

British hag is a good one, its quite a compliment. Thanks
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WELL IF THAT'S REALLY HOW YOU FEEL PRICKCUSHION, HOW ABOUT I GO JOIN A BUNCH OF FORUMS, TELL A BUNCH OF REALLY NASTY LIES ABOUT YOU AND SEND THEM ALL HERE TO READ YOUR BS AND POST ABOUT WHAT A LOON YOU ARE? AND SINCE YOU'RE SO FULL OF INVESTIGATIVE POWER [/QUOTE]

The Number One rule for dealing with this type of behaviour is: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage. This is not as easy to do as it sounds. It's a natural response to want to defend yourself, and to put the person right. However, never argue with a serial bully; it's not a mature adult discussion, but like dealing with a child or immature teenager; whilst the serial bully may be an adult on the outside, on the inside they are like a child who's never grown up - and probably never will. Serial bullies and harassers often have disordered thinking patterns and do not share the same thoughts or values as you.
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One problem Lisa...I dont belong to a bunch of forums trying to start trouble so if you join forums telling lies about me, I dont really think they are going to give a damn....grow up!!

British hag is a good one, its quite a compliment. Thanks
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Well, here in the only country that really counts, it's NOT a compliment.

And I'm sure other "normal" RA forums would find these posts great for entertaining, taking the mind off the old joints.
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The Number One rule for dealing with this type of behaviour is: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage. This is not as easy to do as it sounds. It's a natural response to want to defend yourself, and to put the person right. However, never argue with a serial bully; it's not a mature adult discussion, but like dealing with a child or immature teenager; whilst the serial bully may be an adult on the outside, on the inside they are like a child who's never grown up - and probably never will. Serial bullies and harassers often have disordered thinking patterns and do not share the same thoughts or values as you.
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And your post is different from a bully, just like you never join in?
My neighbours 3 year old wants to kow if you'd like to come play dollys with her, shes about your age in mentality.
[QUOTE=Mrs Pincushion]I have never been anyone else other than pincushion, pin cushion, Mrs Pincushion or I came on here under my husbands name and he also posted here......so please fill me in on who I have been on here as .This should be interesting....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I dont give a damn if you are Lisa, Audrey or some old sleezebag from the local bar.

Yes I did PM you to keep it off here but you just cant help yourself can you....
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You pm'd me to keep it off the board? YOU NEVER PARTICIPATE IN THE ARGUING? Now who is lying? For years you've disrupted the board with your petty arguments.

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If its the only country that counts how come you are worried about a british hag....make some sense will you.   You should go out and see the world, maybe you will realise that your backward thinking is bourne from believing the crap you speak.

My neighbours 3 year old wants to kow if you'd like to come play dollys with her, shes about your age in mentality.
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Sure dear, send her on down here, my son likes to play WWF and I'm sure he'd like to kick her ass.
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You pm'd me to keep it off the board? YOU NEVER PARTICIPATE IN THE ARGUING? Now who is lying? For years you've disrupted the board with your petty arguments.

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Many serial bullies are also serial attention-seekers. More than anything else they want attention. It doesn't matter what type of attention they get, positive or negative, as long as they can provoke someone into paying them attention. It's like a 2-year-old child throwing a tantrum to get attention from a parent. The best way to treat bullies is to refuse to respond and to refuse to engage them - which they really hate. In other words, do not reply to their postings, and on forums carry on posting without reference to their postings as if they didn't exist. In other words, treat nobodies as nobodies.

The anger of a serial bully is especially apparent when they come across someone who can see through them to espy the weak, inadequate, immature, dysfunctional aggressive individual behind the mask.
[QUOTE=TeedOff ]The Number One rule for dealing with this type of behaviour is: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage. This is not as easy to do as it sounds. [/quote]
I have stayed out of this, as A.)I am not certain what transpired previously B.)aside from the entertainment value the overall value of this topic is overrate, however, knowing I am treading on sacred opinion. . . THIS in an oxymoron in action, if ever an oxymoron was in action.

Edited to correct formatting, laughing through my tears, you know/
Spelunker2009-05-11 08:53:12The looney bin evidently has an escapee. Next she'll be playing with dolls.[QUOTE=hessalina]The looney bin evidently has an escapee. Next she'll be playing with dolls.[/QUOTE]

From what I hear, she does.
Getting boring in here. Let's stir up the sh*t. You women in here are pros at it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I guess Prickcushion wanted me to post this so here it is:

Private Message

lol

Kinda boring, not her best work.

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