I don't get it | Arthritis Information
I have been reading some of the posts on this site and I am appauled at the mean things that people say about each other. I realize that you cant like everyone and there are people that annoy you but as an adult you just shut your mouth and move on. I assume that the members here are adults?
We are all different and unique individuals. If I was being treated like some of you my psyche would be ruined.
One suggestion here would be for the person who is the most unhappy with members would be to start her own website and invite her friends that she likes and they can make each other miserable without torturing the rest of us.
yeah some ppl here can be pretty rude
since ive been a member, since june 15th, i think
ive seen lots of mean posts
not ALL of the members are adults lol
im a kid, well im 13 but i guess u can call me a kid (or a teenager, it doesnt matter)
MOST of the ppl here are adults tho
and they can be mean sometimes
For two years now I have tried to turn the other cheek, make excuses and what not.
The same barrage just keeps coming and coming.
I'm sorry Farmer and Star if you see another side of me.
There is still alot of good here. I think it got rather carried away at election time. Well pre election time that is. Just was from the beginning that I thought a politcal thread on a suport forum was bound to be trouble. Sure people with RA have political interest. just I think those interest could have been carried out on some other forum. Terrible truth about it is that adults should no to get over all that was said in political debates. They are historically known for harshness. But people on this forum I think hold such a dear feeling for this forum that it really hurt there feellings to be argueing and disagreeing with one another.
Then I do not even want to go there but the Ap verses the non Ap another issue of disagreement. Some people hold so true to there thoughts that they feel it is only one way and if you dare to disagree you are cruel or incompetant. Both sides had people that were way out on a limb. Stephen it is alright to say your piece. I guess I have not yet read anything you said. I may be speaking out of turn but I have mostly known you to be supportive to people. So I think you having lived threw all the rubbish should have a bit of a break down and say your piece. At this point it would seem almost an intitlement for everyone thats put up with it. If I read something you wrote that is out of character I shall not judge you to harshly. Certainly you did not start it thats for sure.
The best advise I can tell you is to try to read around it. Avoid anything that looks suspicious. Know that there are two sides to every story and that I don't believe either one of them. That is if someone hurts your feellings know in your heart to shake it off because there at the very least one thousand people that love you and care and think it was wrong. that is a very low estamate on the numbers as alot people read and do not post. Try to find the good here. There is so much good here. I do not think anyone should go away. Maybe they should all grow up and stop whinning about there feellings being hurt. I do not really know what all of what is said is true as I tried to avoid the contraversy as much as I could. If what is said is true then I certainly do not condone it. So if asked my opinion my answer might not be a popular one. It seems to me there are some unfare and unjust things that went on during the preelection period if not even criminal but certainly cruel? I do not know I missed it. What could a person have said or done that would warrent such mass hate and bragging rights about how cruel they were to them. Did they strongly disagree with someone? Then why were they singled out? Did they say something more cruel than anything else thats ever been said on this forum? What was the big post that was so different that couldn't be excepted? Because I did not see it. Maybe that would change my opinion. Guess it does not matter as it will not change the past.
Milly, Thank you for giving something of your self in this post.
You are a decent person as are 95% of others in this world.
I can only speak for myself and say that it is not my feelings that have been hurt,
it is the constant attacking of people ........ by people that should be protectors that get my goat up.
Sometimes even the good, and the passive have to get dirty.
Good post Milly.
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