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[QUOTE=joonie]...Most of everything I say on here is only in my head. I have issues. I have low self-esteem issues. I have issues of thinking I am not good enough. I have issues of thinking people do not like me when they do. I have a lot of issues that stem from growing up with having this disease.[/QUOTE]
Joonie, I am not bring this up to embarrass you but rather because what you have said in this post truly concerns me.

I know that your father-in-law is your spiritual counselor and that assists you to find a place of peace and comfort within yourself. However, what you have said here are not issues that a pastor, no matter how well-meaning and vigilant, is schooled to deal with (unless your father-in-law is a psychologist, which does not seem to be the case).

At 30, you should not be burdened with issues of growing up with RA, nor should you be shrouded in self-esteem and self-worth issues.

I urge you, from my heart, to seek counseling from someone trained to assist you with overcoming all these burdensome issues: please.

With concern, Shug



Joonie, I'm agreeing with Shug.  After reading some of the language you used on this board I just could not believe it was from you Joonie.  Please break away from some of the others because they are bringing you down to their level, which is pretty low.  You deserve better than that Joonie.  You really do!

Huggin ya.
Ok.Joonie is the daughter-in-law to a PASTOR???  Holy sh*t!  I wonder what he would think of her behavior on this board???

 
Joonie, I know you have the strength to do this, I have some issues myself that I have just started having counselling for and boy its making me feel empowered, if you want to talk in private please pm me but I know you have the character required to do whatever it is you need to do to be at peace with yourself.  Don't take any notice of the idiots that taunt you on here, if you just ignore them that is a bigger and better thing to do, don't let them drag you down.  Too much energy is wasted on these people who are only here to fight, doesn't matter who it is as long as they can make them take the bait, and enable them to continue their evil games.  They definitely need mental help!  Hugs Janie.
Shug, good on you for making the move to inform Joonie of your thoughts.
So What, a lot of people have grown up with diseases.  Do something about it. 
 
[QUOTE=Spelunker] [QUOTE=joonie]...Most of everything I say on here is only in my head. I have issues. I have low self-esteem issues. I have issues of thinking I am not good enough. I have issues of thinking people do not like me when they do. I have a lot of issues that stem from growing up with having this disease.[/QUOTE]
Joonie, I am not bring this up to embarrass you but rather because what you have said in this post truly concerns me.

I know that your father-in-law is your spiritual counselor and that assists you to find a place of peace and comfort within yourself. However, what you have said here are not issues that a pastor, no matter how well-meaning and vigilant, is schooled to deal with (unless your father-in-law is a psychologist, which does not seem to be the case).

At 30, you should not be burdened with issues of growing up with RA, nor should you be shrouded in self-esteem and self-worth issues.

I urge you, from my heart, to seek counseling from someone trained to assist you with overcoming all these burdensome issues: please.

With concern, Shug



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I thought this was a support board?  [QUOTE=Phatgirl2]
So What, a lot of people have grown up with diseases.  Do something about it. 
 
[QUOTE=Spelunker] [QUOTE=joonie]...Most of everything I say on here is only in my head. I have issues. I have low self-esteem issues. I have issues of thinking I am not good enough. I have issues of thinking people do not like me when they do. I have a lot of issues that stem from growing up with having this disease.[/QUOTE]
Joonie, I am not bring this up to embarrass you but rather because what you have said in this post truly concerns me.

I know that your father-in-law is your spiritual counselor and that assists you to find a place of peace and comfort within yourself. However, what you have said here are not issues that a pastor, no matter how well-meaning and vigilant, is schooled to deal with (unless your father-in-law is a psychologist, which does not seem to be the case).

At 30, you should not be burdened with issues of growing up with RA, nor should you be shrouded in self-esteem and self-worth issues.

I urge you, from my heart, to seek counseling from someone trained to assist you with overcoming all these burdensome issues: please.

With concern, Shug



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Yeah... but no one grew up with my family and with this disease. I am not blaming my disease for anything, because I never knew what I had was a disease until I joined this message board in 2005. I always knew I was different than everyone else I ever met or was around. Just knew people did not like me because I was different and my siblings did not like me because I was different. And here I am 30 years old still being the only one who is different.
 
I come here for support from others like me. If I wanted to be judged or told I have a mental defect than I would visit my family everyday and I would have real life friends. [QUOTE=Lisa0nline]no, it's an attention-seeking board.[/QUOTE]
 
Well... you are different in your own way... so I guess you are an attention seeker as well.
You know, I was supportive of Joonie when I first came here.  But, over time, I realized that she is only looking for those to support her self destructive, poor behavior.  You can't fix stupid. 
 
[QUOTE=janiefx1]I thought this was a support board?  [QUOTE=joonie]
 
 
Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.
 
And another thing... some people choose family life over a career that makes them a work-a-holic.
I see your "new leaf" didn't last long.  Too bad you are still white trash and always will be.  Does it make you feel better to talk smack about me?  Oh, you are better?  That is funny, your pathetic posts don't indicate that.  You are the bottom of the barrel with a filthy, white trash mouth.
 
[QUOTE=joonie]I was not talking about you, Shug nor Janie. I was talking about Phatty Mcfat-fat and IT.
 
 
[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.

 
And another thing... some people choose family life over a career that makes them a work-a-holic.
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since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.
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Apparently in back wood Alabama, that is what family life is 

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.

 
And another thing... some people choose family life over a career that makes them a work-a-holic.
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since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.
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Look who is calling the kettle black.  Who are you two to point a finger at anyone?  You both have the mouth of a barnyard bat and about as much brains.  How do you know she is hanging out online unless you are too?  Just make sure your own back steps are clean before you start cleaning someone elses.
TeedOff2009-07-03 21:10:50 [QUOTE=TeedOff][QUOTE=Phatgirl2]

Apparently in back wood Alabama, that is what family life is 

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.

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[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=TeedOff][QUOTE=Phatgirl2]

Apparently in back wood Alabama, that is what family life is 

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.

 
And another thing... some people choose family life over a career that makes them a work-a-holic.
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since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.
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Look who is calling the kettle black.  Who are you two to point a finger at anyone?  You both have the mouth of a barnyard bat and about as much brains.  How do you know she is hanging out online unless you are too?  Just make sure your own back steps are clean before you start cleaning someone elses.
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I thought I smelled rotten festering fish. Try some masenngil on that! We KNOW joonie is up till all hours because of the times on her posts, dumbcvnt.


[/QUOTE] You foul mouthed old coot.  You and Henrietta seem to be on the same wave length.  The only rotten fish on here is you...you dingbat.  You are oh so smart aren't you.  I am still waiting for the apology you owe me. [QUOTE=TeedOff]You foul mouthed old coot.  You and Henrietta seem to be on the same wave length.  The only rotten fish on here is you...you dingbat.  You are oh so smart aren't you.  I am still waiting for the apology you owe me.[/QUOTE]

Here's an apology. Sorry your yeast infection spread to your brain
Is THAT what happened to you?trolled again! you're too easy! [QUOTE=Phatgirl2]








[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.



[/QUOTE]since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Henrietta]
[QUOTE=TeedOff][QUOTE=Phatgirl2]

Apparently in back wood Alabama, that is what family life is 

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.



[/QUOTE]since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE]




<FONT face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" color=#990099 size=3>Apparently in back wood Alabama, that is what family life is 

[QUOTE=Henrietta] [QUOTE=joonie]Oh and phatty mcfat-fat... I am not self destructive. I have actually gotten better since you stopped supporting me.



[/QUOTE]since when does "family life" mean hanging out online until 5AM and sleeping half the day away when your children are awake. Your poor husband has to work AND cook AND take care of the kids.[/QUOTE] [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=joonie]I was not talking about you, Shug nor Janie. I was talking about Phatty Mcfat-fat and IT.
 
 
[/QUOTE] WHOA!  I am appalled that my post of concern to Joonie devolved into yet one more round of name calling, on all sides. I am embarrassed that my small effort to encourage Joonie to seek help for her self-named issues came to this.

I apologize to everyone for providing yet another opportunity for dissension: such was not my intent nor my wont.


Shug, I'm really sorry that this turned into a hate fest.  I know you didn't start this thread for anything other than to offer advice and support,  but lately, there's few threads that don't turn into hateful and spiteful words.  Until the environment improves, full support and offers of help can only be offered by pms.  Hopefully, things will calm down soon.  Lindy
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