ETA: some stuff cause I hit reply too quick.
It is his loss.
But I have said a prayer for you...I ask God to give you peace in your life and all you do. Have a good night and stop worrying, things will likely work out and this person not liking you may not even seem as important tomorrow as it did today...time has a way of changing things...
I will pray for you. I was always the new kid at school and I remember how awful it felt to have people avoid you because you weren't part of their clique. I do agree with what the other folks have said... This will eventually work itself out. Hang in there. thnx everyone, u ppl are awesomeStar, bless you my love!!! there have already been some really kind msgs here, I hope you can take comfort from that. We wll of course add you in our prayers. Please dont let this person hurt you, either physically or mentally. Take care
Just thought of lyrics from an old song -- by Rick Nelson. He wrote it after he was booed at Madison Square Garden for performing different music than usual:
(from Garden Party by Rick Nelson)
"But it's alright now, I've learned my lesson well,
You see, you can't please everyone, so you've got to please yourself."I remember that song....and the lyrics are so true.
Star, if he can't talk to you or even look at you, perhaps there is something about you that makes him feel insecure, intimidated. It's not YOUR doing........it's HIS.
While I have no clue if this person is a parent or a schoolmate.....I can tell you that some parents will avoid conversation with their kids because they don't know what to say, how to reach the kid......too, there are parents who feel as though they are ill-equipped and feel embarrassed that their children can't look up to them.
In short, there are many reasons why this can happen. If this is a person who is important to you in your life, then opening up a dialogue may be the way to go.
Feel free to PM me if you want to discuss.
Star, I am so sorry but let me tell you something about me. I am overweight and not just slightly overweight. I have had boyfriends and I have many friends who like me just the way I am. I am emailing now with someone who has seen a picture of me when I weighed 50 pounds less. He still wants to go for coffee with me even though I have gained weight because he likes what is on the inside, he says that is what makes you a person.
I wouldnt worry about this person, he is not worth your worries or making yourself sad over it. When I watched your videos I thought you were funny and a person that if I were a teenager that I would like to spend time with.
Star you are a teenager, have fun, you have friends who like you and care about you and that is what is most important!
I will say a prayer for you but I think you will be just fine. Be cool!!
Maria
thnx people, maybe ill PM Sam1234
idk, maybe later
cuz i feel like talking about it
maybe he doesnt like me cuz im sorta fat :(
Star, I'm so glad you came on here requesting prayer. Don't ever be discouraged from doing that. Action is fine, but action without out thoughtful prayer and seeking of wisdom first can lead us down some foolish paths. You took the right first step, don't doubt that. :) You can be sure you will be on my prayer list. I willpray that God gives you the wisdom to know how to handle this situation. Remember that the only people that are liked by everyone are usually people that are just putting on an act, a different person for everyone they meet. If you are innocent in this (think that over) then keep your head held high, treat this enemy with kindness, and move on.Hi Star,
I've been there, and my son is now going through this... It's hard to tell that person to ignore them and they aren't worth your time. I know it's easier said than done. Try to think ahead.... 5 years from now, even a few years from now...Will it matter that he is being a jerk? Nope...You probably will never see him again (if it's a kid at your school). He'll move on to finding someone else to pick on or be mean to...and hopefully grow up and realize how mean he really was and feel horrible for years for doing that to you! It's not you...don't let yourself feel bad over someone like this. You said you think he's being mean becuase your fat.... look at all the kids around you and adults... No one is the same. If it is something that superficial they will find something wrong with anyone. You are truly a good person from other posts I've read on here and like I've said before to you, If they truly new the things you have to go through they would not be picking on you or ignoring you the way they do. You have more soul and love than most people I bet at your school! Keep smiling and remember in a few years...none of this will matter. They will move on and so will you.
Good luck Star. You are a good and decent kid. I wish you luck in general. I forget what it must be like to be a kid in school. I hope everything turns out alright for you.thnx for replying everyone!
and for praying too :)
Have a good day at school Star!yup i will, InflamedOnline
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