He works for the railroad. The gang he is working on decided to go camping and fishing for the weekend (Memorial). I was happy for him but sad I would not hear from him. Yesterday, lo and behold, I get a call from him saying he wanted to know how I was doing
That is one blessing for sure. I really do believe that my husband TOTALLY believes when I say I cannot do something. It would feel terrible if I thought he doubted me. I feel that way with other people sometime and I cry to him about it.
Luv, Justme
Roxy, your Brett is a angel. It's so hard to find a man who cares like yours!
MarisaMy husband does the same kind of thing, it's is great :)That was nice of him...wtg Brett!
I just wish he didn't have to work so far away. We are going to work on that. I may move to Oregon where most of his jobs are. I would love to see him everyday. He was home three months once. I felt so good during that time. He never judged me when I was too tired or hurting. Right now he knows I am very depressed and upset over the possibility I might lose my job - he calls to let me know he is concerned and he will be there for me no matter what. I wish I could float the river with him and Justme - I would love to play nurse How does it work, Roxy, that his jobs are in Oregon? Does he travel back & forth from where you are, or do they base him there? That really does make it hard. He must love you a lot - & vice versa, to keep it going long distance. I hope however it works out, you can be together soon. Everything's better when you're not alone.
He works all over. He works for Burlington Northern driving heavy equipment. Wnenever there is a place that a track needs work, they send him there. It just so happens, he gets sent to Oregon and Washington and the Lassen Area near us - 1.5 hours - he gets sent the most. Burlington Northern does not go through where I live so he does not start work until he hits the railroad. If we lived closer to the tracks, he can count his time from the time he gets on the tracks. Hard to explain. He also goes to trainings on a constant basis. I was fine with all of this when I was well as I lived a very busy life also - working two jobs. Since RA - I miss him so much when I am not working. I want to go travel with him - they provide room and board for him but it is really enough for the both of us. Every time I take a trip though I flare
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