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I am wondering if anyone has heard from Roxy. She sure is easy to worry about.

I got hold of her today and she's really down. It's been a complete disaster. They had to rent an extra truck that they couldn't afford. Brett really let her down and money is very tight.

She does need our prayers. She's going to try and get online tonight at her brother's and it would be cool if everyone had encouraging messages waiting for her.

She hasn't been able to even get out of her bed on her own. Tomorrow, she has her job interview.

It's just been a horrible experience for her. But her family is trying to help her out.

She just needs a bit of encouragement. She is a really tough lady who is trying to do impossible things.

She did say her new house is even more beautiful than she remembered it. The animals all made it, except they almost killed the cat. Kelsey still needs surgery.

Hopefully things will get better from here. But she's really down and I don't blame her. It's been awful and she's been so sick. Anything we can think of to cheer her up would be good.

I've been trying to get hold of her. She had her job interview which went well. But not much else is. She tried to get hold of me yesterday and I missed the call. She said Brett had to take Kelsey to the hospital. I tried a couple of more times, but just got their machine.

So, this time, I know nothing and am worried.

Hi Guys, I am so glad to be able to come here again. Internet is up and running - I AM NOT. So many warned me......... I took two bad falls. One I missed two steps and fell on the concrete in the carport and that night I tried to get up and fell on my marble like table top, it fell on me and I had a hell of a time getting back up. PAIN PAIN PAIN. I have not gone to doctor, can't get in to see one yet. I have been desperately trying, getting low on pain meds and I need a cane and walker. I am barely mobile, makes me focus on the pain and I am also bored when I sit around with so much to do. Brett took Kelsey to emergency room and after four hour wait he took her home without seeing a doctor.

So I asked for it, I got it. The house is beautiful and I love seeing my family. I just need to recupe. Praying I will be better by the time the job starts if I get it.

I miss you all so much. I am very weak right now, I have done too much - but it will be good to check in with you all regularly. RA is definitely teaching me limitations and I have really pushed those limits.

Talk very soon. I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU ALL AGAIN.

Do you have any pred? If so take a burst!

Hi, Roxy. Like so many here my thoughts are with you and the huge struggle you are facing. With God's help and your own courage you'll pull through, I'm sure. All the best, Des. Roxy,
It's good to hear that you are alive. We were starting to worry.
I'm sure everyone is praying that things go much better for you
and Kelsey (and Brett). Take care of yourself!

I want you all to know I LOVE OREGON and all the beautiful trees and our new home. I love my family dearly and have not given up on my marriage. I have just learned that my husband does not handle pressure well at all. I had to do most of the work with help from friends. I am very excited about this possible job and life in Oregon - I just need time to heal. We all need time to heal. It was one hell of a move - No one was well. We are coping better now and I am learning to cope with pain better but I cannot function right now too well. I need to heal and I will. Then who knows what this season of my life will bring. I am hopeful and optimistic. I didn't want to sound so depressed. The need for a walker was a hard one to bear but hopefully it is temporary. So please don't worry. One day at a time. I knew and you all knew this would not be easy.

PS I have doubled my pred.

XOXOX

Katie

Oh Roxy!
What else can go wrong?? I hope that you get the rest you need, and the support you need so badly. I'm glad you have the computer up and running now.. Maybe all our encouragement will help you through this time. So happy you are enjoying the house. I worry about falling too.. like I did at my reunion.. It hurt for a few days, but eventually got better, and so will you. Just know that you are loved by so many, who don't even know you! Take care and we are all thinking and praying for you.
V.

I'm sorry to hear that you fell again. But I am glad to know you are still alive. I worry about you all the time. You've come to mean a lot to me as a friend and I sure don't want to lose that. So, please take care of yourself the best that you can.

Regarding getting a walker -- have someone drop by a couple of thrift stores. I'd bet someone in your family would do that. I'd bet your brother would be willing to do that. Or, call Salvation Army or Goodwill and see if they can help you out. I have the same adversion to them as well. It's scary when those and the scooters start to look more like fashion accessories than something we would never consider. I know how you feel. We are too darn young for those. However, we have to remember than we are injured people. My brother is using a walker after his truck accident.

Four hour waits in ERs are normal for here. Many times, with Julie, it has been 16 hour wait (or longer) to get things taken care of. It's hard to have patience for that.

I hope Kelsey is ok and that Brett is on his best behavior.

I'm glad that you are falling in love with your new place. At least that is one joy you can cherish. It is very difficult to make long distant moves. I know you planned everything the best that you could. But things rarely go as we planned. Don't beat yourself up over it though. Think how things would have gone if you hadn't been doing your best to plan and make arrangements.

This is a huge accomplishment and soon it will be followed by others. Just remember that there are people out there that think the world of you.