I have been worrying about my daughter in law. My eldest son 37 got married 3 years ago and it was a godsend to have another woman in the family ( She is 29) . I am 60 and never been a grandma either so, I have secretly hoped for them to have children.
Could this be Lupis?
People say it will grow back but I don’t think it has much of a chance if she isn’t treated right away.
Makes me cry that such a wonderful thing turned out to be a nightmare for them. I don’t know how my daughter in law can deal with this.
She smiles and dosent want me to think she is sad and depressed
but I know how depressed she is. My daughter in law is so beautiful with or
without hair.
Please pray for her, she needs a real miracle.
Sorry I just had to get this out somewhere. When talking to the relatives I just smile and say that I am sure everything will be OK . I don’t want to be negative.
Maybe its some kind of autoamune thing and the baby could be in danger.
Barbara
Dear Barbara,
I'm so very sorry for your family's problems. I don't have any answers to offer you, but I did want to give you my support.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son and daughter in law. Not knowing what's going on is so hard to deal with.
Hugs and Many Blessings to you all,
Nini
I am so sorry as I don't have any answers but I sure am a prayer warrior so will get on it.
Take care,
Please know that you and your son and daughter in law are all in my prayers. Im sorry i cannot offer anymore then that but sometime that is all we need. Keeping faith that God can cure us, or make people better does wonders. Just remember we are all in His hands and he knows what he is doing.Barbara - Please don't jump to conclusions. Most female hairloss is due to hormonal imbalances. And during pregnancy your body is in hormonal chaos. I have a friend that lost huge patches of hair during her pregnancy and it all grew back after the birth of her perfectly healthy child. Prednisone can cause baldness too (usually caused from long term use)- so can inflammation (again long term). I don't think it is permanent though.
Secondly, if her hairloss is truly caused by "scaring alopecia" then it won't grow back - but chances are very, very slim for that. Once her body gets back to normal - I'm quite confident that her hair will grow back. Most alopecia is nonscaring. Alopecia is just the medical term for baldness. ie: alopecia areata = area or patches of balding, tension alopecia = balding from pulling hair back into ponytails or behing caps.
She's seeking medical care and a dermatologist IS the correct doctor to go to for baldness.
Please try not to worry.
Barb~
I will keep your daughter-in-law in my prayers as well as your baby granddaughter. What a blessing she will be to you all.
I know you don't want to crowd your son and his wife; but maybe drop her a note on occations and call her just to say hi....she might welcome the opprotunity to be close to you.
Barb, I'll keep all three of them in my prayers.
I was thinking as I read what you had to say about your DIL how nice it would be for you to send her a card with thoughts like that in it and then maybe place a little locket in the envelope so that she can be reminded that no matter what, she has your love and support.
I think she is lucky to have you.
Will you be my mother in law? I seriously need a new one!I don't think your DiL having AA would have any effect on the pregancy - if that's indeed what she has and not a (much more common) pregnancy induced hormonal imbalance like Trixie said.
If she does have AA, the infection she had may have triggered it. Her hair could grow back as soon as the immune response calms down.
I was pretty sure this was an autoamune disorder because it happened after the fever and swelling. All your comments have made me think this is temporary. I am going to go back to thinking that way for her. Thanks
Your MIL is missing out on sooo much . She is so lucky to
have such a smart and sweet daughter in law like you. If I could, I would be
your MIL any day.
Thanks for keeping them in your prayers
I had a lot of my hair fall out when I had my hysterectomy. As soon as I got on hormone therapy, it came back. Think - You are going to have so much fun spoiling that little girl. Congrats! Being a gramma is soooooooo much fun. They have tons of cute stuff for little girls. I can go nuts buying stuff for my granddaughter. I feel the same way the others do. Don't jump to conclusions. Everything is prolly just hormonal. Will be praying for your family!Grammaskittles, You can be my daughter. What a young grandma.Congratulations on the soon to be born grandaughter!
When I was pregnant with my 5th (already had 4 boys) I had an ultrasound and the Dr. told me it was a girl. He reminded me every appointment afterwards. I did the nursury in pink and blue. Wouldn't you know it but I had another boy!!
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