so out of 3 nursing classess this semester i failed one...
and have now 2 left to finish the program...
sadly I'm not sure thats possible
the economy here sucks and there are no jobs
and now Im a less than able worker...
my life is getting better by the second
I love what my health has done to me so far alot of hopes and dreams are in the gutter....
what a life maybe i can repeat the class but theres no promises .... I hope I just dont completly fall apart now....
but i'm sure thats coming soon.
Mark,theres barely any jobs in my hometown and now it seems like everything i worked for is turned to dust.....
out of all this I wonder what I have learned....
will I survive? I don't know to be honest IF not i quess RA can be proud it got someone who had so many dreams... well who knows if ill even see the rd doc now........it's hard to overcome something like this....... i dont have the strength so say some prayers for this mark guy he sure needs em.
I feel for you Mark. I have been battling a huge bout of depression myself. You can read my post entitled "what if the drugs don't work." Deanna has some very kind things to say. I know our situations are a bit different but its hard all the same. I must work as well as we can not go without my income but I wonder how much longer I will be able to continue as well. My heart goes out to you. Love and hugs.
Mark,
DO NOT GIVE UP!
This is a set back. That's all. That's all the energy you can give to it. If you've been reading about any of my battles, you know that I'm getting pretty beat up. Here's what I do. I take a couple of days when I don't deal with any of this stuff. I give myself a break.
Then, on the third day, I start working the problem again. You have been under a lot of pressure. Nursing school just by itself is a lot of pressure.
Over the last few weeks, thanks to all the times I've been to the ER with my daughter, I met some pretty interesting nurses. They found jobs working as contract nurses for a company that sends them all over the country. This one girl was doing it with her sister and mom. They all came out to AZ together (where there is a high demand for nurses) from South Carolina. All their expenses, including rent, are paid for. She is having the time of her life. The nice thing about these positions is that you make a lot more money and usually have more control over the hours that you work.
That means you could try out different opportunities and get paid good money. So, don't give up on nursing. There are many ways to use that degree.
What is hard is that you are so sick right now without any of the answers that you need. That's what is really hurting you. The uncertainty of the future is a real killer. But you have to hang in there becaise there is so much more life to be had.
I want to give up. I cannot believe how much is wrong with me right now and everything is a huge battle. I'm so very, very tired of trying. But what if I stop. What will that do to my children, to my parents? I just cannot give up. I'm sure you have people that care about you. You need to hang out with them. If you don't have this kind of support, then reach out and grab it and grab it hard.
I am looking at some worst case scenarios right now. I am at my limit. But coming here, listening to others, helps me.
So what if you blew one class. I got fired once too. It didn't end my life. I got divorced, twice. Didn't end my life. And, I'm still fighting no matter what the doctors do or all this illness does.
Look within yourself. You can find that strength. If you weren't able to then you would not keep coming back here.
Your will is to live. In fact, you want a great life and you are afraid you won't have that. But a great life is in who you allow yourself to become, to the singularities that you bring to life on this planet.
Hang in there, Mark. Some day soon, you are going to be telling us about something great that has happened to you.
Hi Mark - am so sorry to hear how hard it is for you.