I was looking for more info on neuropathy and I found this site with all kinds of helpful tips to dealing with painful feet and hands. Some of these sound like they would be really useful for us.
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Deanna, there are some good tips there that would work for RA. I like the one for peeling oranges with a spoon, and the one about picking up pills with a spoon. I'm going to cull through it for more ideas. Where there's an engineering mind, there's a way, I suppose.If you read further on the site, Granny Jo is in her 80s and has started several support groups. She's got the best ideas of all and the best attitude.