Brett has been moody the last three days and saying how he wished we would not have moved. He misses the mountains. He just came back from his place to move his "stuff" up here. I feel the resentment he has how things turned out - him caring for me and Kelsey. It hurts. I have been trying to do things for myself. When my marriage does not feel good, I do not feel good
As a co dependant personality myself....dont make his issues your issues or be so quick to blame yourself....maybe he is just having a bad day....concentrate on you and getting better and the rest will fall in place.You cannot fix everyone and I am just like you and should follow my own advise......Hi there,
I just wanted to echo what Gramma2 had to say. Please hang in
there.Wishing you all the best.
Same here, I always want to make everyone happy at the expense of my own needs. I just can't do it. Not with this disease. Gramma2 has got it right. Even though I very much didn't want to, I had to cut down on being everything to the people closest to me, and just be as helpful as I was ABLE. Which isn't alot. I know how much that sucks. I want to be right there for them 24/7. I just can't. It can be a bummer...
Especially for folks that like to be the helpmate type. I'm one of 'em. like Jinx said, Hang in there....
I do hope you can get some sleep, rest is really important....