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Any suggestions how I would go about getting my dog from my ex fiance'? I am sure Nibby is getting older  and I am sure the winters are very difficult for her now. I would like to take care of her in her old age. I still remember the day when I left when she would not get out of my car, she may not remember me, but somehow I am sure she will.

I am prepared for Tim to say no, as always, but I think he would be making a mistake in that decision because she will be able to remain inside here at my house and get medical attention. For all I know he might have been keeping up on her shots and things.I know the change may be difficult for her but I know this weather has to be hard on her and she is getting too old to have to live that way. Maybe it is mainly for me as well, I am so weary of loss and she and I spent so much time together....anyone know how I would go about doing this? I do not have Tim's eamil nor do I remember his phone number.

jode

 

Google him. Or call information. Do you know what town he lives in?

C

Hmmm, I know if I google him I will just get his cousin in Cincinatti and I have already tried to look up his address,well tried but actually I cannot remember his address.....

Besides I know for a fact he will not take my calls. I tried to phone his home several times and no answer.

Thanks anyway.Any other ideas?All input is good input.

jode

Was this a dog you got while together? Or was this your dog before you met him?  Why does he have the dog?

Ok Jode... here is my idea

I say hire someone to doggie-nap her. Yep! And then he would not even know who doggie-napped her. He will just think she came up missing or got out somehow, since she is mainly outside.

Ok...ok...ok... maybe not my best idea. I do not know what to do to get her to come live with you. Hummm... nope got nothing.

If it were me... I would probably doggie-nap her

We got the dog when someone dumped he rin a ditch, his daugther's friend found her and she wanted to keep her. She just sort of became a part of our family. It took me awhile to get her out of the car several times!

He got the dog cause he was really mean when he said "do not take my dog". Heck I doubt that she gets fed ontime, I could be wrong but I was the one that took care of her. I just know how hard the winters were on her an dnow she is so much older, I am just worried about her in this bitter cold.

jode

If you truly dont think the dog is being cared for properly then I am with Joonie - dognap it back. If
he doesnt really want the dog & was keeping it out of spite then he may not even care.   Is there somehow you can find out if the dog is being well cared for, if not then I would say get it back however you can.   If the dog is being cared for then that is another issue - can a lawyer step in here, have heard of custody battles for pets but they probably cost a lot. Maybe someone here will know the legal rights and wrongs.
Good luck.

No an attorney is not necessary, I just miss my dog that we shared and I am just concerned about the cold and her getting older. My daughters' friends see her out and about once in awhile and say she is pretty much the same, so I know she is/was still alive.

No doubt he kept a lot of things out of spite and quite frankly I have no idea why the spite. I guess he just got in the mood to be spiteful...dunno. All I do know is that at the time I was driving back and forth from Michigan to Indiana trying to do the things I wanted to do plus do what he wanted me to do. It all got to be too much, I am not superhuman.

I should have taken the dog anyway right then but at the time I had no place for her as I was living in my mom's condo at the time and was not to get posession of this house till Feb.

Still trying to problem solve all this, not sure what to do. I have been thinking about going on vacation so who knows. I was going to go to California to see the new baby in September but I don;t think my sis wants me to tag along so I am  not quite sure but I do know I want to go on vacation. The other possibility is to stay home and and buy a new car.....not sure.
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