I’m stealing an idea from David Spade. If any of you watch his Showbiz Show, you’ll know what I’m talking about. I’m about to do a “There I Said It” If you don’t want any part of the drama then close this window NOW. Don’t finish reading, and then whine about the drama. Kay? Kay. Oh, and I cuss, deal with it. Now. Here I go.
I’ve been busy this past month and then some because this time of year is VERY busy here, and I’m finally feeling pretty good, so the last thing I want to do is miss out on time with my hunny, and my baby kitties. No offence, I love you all!! J I DO still try to keep up, see how everyone else is doing, offer tid-bits of advice when I can, etc etc. This task becomes increasingly difficult when certain people can’t seem to control their childish urges. The posts that I want to read and answer to are swallowed up by the constant bullsh*t, perpetuated by the same people.
You know who you are. And if you don’t, I’m about to tell you. Brace yourself kiddies, ‘cause I’m done being nice. There’s a certain 3 of you that just don’t seem to have figured out that the damn horse has been dead for several months now. Phats, Roxy, and Daisy – you three have been nothing but habitual sh*t stirrers – of everyone who gets “involved” your three names just keep popping up. I’m not saying that no one else is involved, but their “comments” are sporadic to say the least. And before you three say “wah” about it, shut up and read the rest.
Phats – Hunny, you make me laugh and you can be sweet as cherry pie. Stay that way. In order to do this, you’ll have to realize one thing. You can’t control everyone. Get the hell over it. You don’t like Roxy, that’s spectacular. But shut up about it. We get the picture. If you see a post that was started by Roxy, DON’T CLICK IT. For the love of everything holy, don’t hover the mouse over the subject, and DON’T left click. It’s *really* that damn simple. There is absolutely NOTHING more to this issue with you, other than you just can’t seem to let it go! Why???????? Please please PLEASE QUIT BEATING THE HORSE. IT’S DEAD.
Daisy – I don’t give two hoots if you’re someone’s alter ego or just another poster who feels some sort of satisfaction from being a general pain in the ass. Look, you’re a nice girl. From time to time you’ve had some awesome advice and you’ve been really nice to people who have needed support. But the fact of the matter is, you tend to surface more often when the sh*t hits the fan with Roxy. Perhaps you should question yourself on this matter. Personally, for the most part I don’t care either way, but as you can tell it’s finally eaten me. So do something about it. My suggestion, is to involve yourself in some OTHER posts, aside from posts done by Roxy. Seems pretty easy to me. If you have questions, feel free to PM me.
And Roxy. Hunny, you have a fire for life that most would die for. You dive into everything head first and 100% That’s an amazing ability seeing how we’re only on this earth for one quick shot, so the way I figure it you’ve only got one chance at anything, so you might as well take it. But ya know that with every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction, and as an adult you need to stand up and face that with some balls. You throw everything on the line here, you HAVE to expect to pick up some crap for it. I’m not disputing that in the least. It’s how you HANDLE it that I have issues with. You’re HOW OLD? Cause it sure doesn’t show. It’s like watching a mother call her kids assholes because they called her a doody head. Grow the hell up. You bitch about how “you don’t understand how what you’re saying is controversial” That’s the biggest pile of sh*t I’ve read in a long time. Do not play the “woe is me” card here, we have already called you on that one. You post entire threads labeled “AI drama” (or something close) You are a drama queen. Plain and simple. The sooner you embrace that, the easier everyone’s life will be. Including yours. You can be a drama queen, and have an eventful fulfilling life WITHOUT being a lying psycho bitch about it. Don’t you DARE say otherwise, you’ll only be cheating YOURSELF. I am a drama queen, ask anyone close to me. But I certainly do not dramatize serious issues and then cry ‘wah’ when people call me on it.
I love the three of you dearly, I really do. You all have something to give, but you’re also all giant pains in the ass. Deal with it. And please, for everyone’s who cares about you’s sake DO something about it.
There, I Said It.
Slightly off that note……….this is memorial day weekend and is super busy here at work, after that I have some kitties that need to see a vet, and other personal matters, so I’m not going to be around for a couple of weeks………….when I get back, I want to be able to read RA related posts, and come back to a caring environment where I can post helpful things to people who really need it. You may not think it, but I HATE posting crap like this. Hate it. Love you all, ttyl and thanks for listening, and understanding where I’m coming from.
Katie, Have a great week-end. Try not to work too hard. Will miss you, but sometimes things just get a bit too crazy in personal lives to try to keep up here.
Enjoy your Sweetie & kitties.
Hugs, Nini
SICKOFDRAMA you are wrong. There is no one holding a gun to Daisy or Phat's head, making them open the post, and forcing their fingers to meet the keyboard. It's as simple as that. If you don't like someone's drama, don't read it. How many times does that need to be stated? The common denominator here is immaturity, and that cannot be pinned to one person.
Pin, you are one of the reasons I posted this. I miss you dearly I know that you posted some important events recently, but I've lost the posts and have no idea whats going on. I wanted to reply to you so badly, but I only get so much time to do it in, and by the time I had the shot, your post was gone!! Miss you!! :( :( :( Oh, the kitties have worms, EW!!
Errrr......................little wiggley white things, that make their tushes itch!!! aw Bless. Miss you too Katie, maybe we'll catch up when you get a few quiet moments at work.Loved the kittie pics.
Take Care
Katie said: "not going to be around for a couple of weeks………….when I get back, I want to be able to read RA related posts, and come back to a caring environment where I can post helpful things to people who really need it."Arriscowell;
Alls I gots to say.
Have a good a weekend, a much deserved one at that and hope the kitties get well soon. I love you all!! Just wanted to say that. Katie is taking the kitties to the vet right after the holiday weekend.
Please lets get this infighting behind us now and do what we need to do here and that is support each other. However, I can say...that if support is given...support should be returned. Sometimes...that gets a little lost around here.
you call that a rant? or even trying to set things straight? i'm not impressed and further more how about you just shut the hell up too!Flames - Katie is just stating facts and what I have been wanting to say for ohhh about 2 days now, but have been trying to not be labled as a trouble maker, personal attacking because me and roxy have "history" and trying to just let all this crap go over and the board get back to supporting folks.
But you know maybe newbies do need to go to a more stable board. I think I will start bumping a post with the list of all the other message boards they can visit and get better support than our feuding board can provide. And no the other board will not be on that list and if someone does list it then so be it.
i think you are right Joonie....that last remark about the cat and Chinese, was just of the meanest, cruelest, vindictive, hateful thing...How could someone be that angry?
Woah. Uncalled for. Seriously uncalled for. Why don't you grow a set and come out from behind the fake name and face people like a man or woman. People like you perpetuate the problems that are going on around here.
I have a nice big lake close to my house. Go take a run into it and douse your flames.
I normally ignore people like this. But please, Katie is one of the nicest most caring people I have ever been fortunate enuf to come into my life. She has saved me from myself many a time. And for someone that doesn't even know her or can not face her without hiding behind mommys apron has no right to say anything like that about her. No one has a right to say anything like that about anyone. And watch your mouth. Your language is offensive. But what should I really expect. So are you. I will be waiting around for Karma to kick in for you. Oh and say whatever you want about me. I know who I am and others know who and what I am about also and that will stand for itself. But I could not sit by and have someone say the things you did about a very sweet woman. That didn't have to hide behind mommys apron to say what she did.
KARMA WHERE ARE YOU!!!!
I agree with Grammaskittles. Totally uncalled for. Never mind guys, this arguing and rubbish that is going on is certainly showing us who to avoid from now on, hopefully they will take their bat and ball and play elsewhere! JAnie. [QUOTE=Kiwilass2] Yes, that was most cruelly unkind and totally uncalled for - you are one meeeeean person! Yet another one I suppose, although I am still hopeful that things will mellow out. Flames, you COULD help that process!!That remark about the kitties was the most viliest thing i ever heard.Grow up
Thank You Sick of Drama for your offensive post to me. Sad that I had to block you from my PM list, so you have had to go public with your insults?