I made it through all this graduation stuff, missed not having the man of my dreams next to me during such a huge time in my daughter's life.
My daughter gets her apartment on Monday so she and her bfriend will finally have their own place. THis is the time when I had planned on living in a relationship without kids! lol.I guess I am lost.
jode
Congratulations Jode! Be proud of yourself. Raising children is really hard. I'm learning more and more about that as my children get older. Having a 17 year old makes those sleepless nights with infants seem like a walk in the park doesn't it?
I can only imagine how hard it's going to be with her leaving home. Keep your chin up though.....she's been waiting for this for a long time now; trust me, she's gonna need Momma a little more than you think. I've got a feeling you're going to see plenty of that young lady. Don't worry.
Congratulations, Jode! Graduation is such a huge step for young adults. Being on their own and making their own life decisions.
Having a great Mom really helps, too. Hope she doesn't move too far away. I agree, she will always need her Mom.
Be well and happy.
Nini
My oldest came back several times. So, keep those home fires burning. Thinkthinn, you're so right. My son returned home in his early 30's after a ugly divorce. I kept him around for 18 months and finally said you're way too comfortable it's time for you to find your way again. Keep those fires burning Jode. I'm glad grad. went well for everyone. LindyYeah she is doing great and I am so proud of her. THis is what it is all about; teaching her independence, teaching her the way to be qa grown up.
I had to chuckle, yep it was easier when she was an infant, but I was one of those mom's that loved the twilight feedings, cherished every second, it was our "special time".
Feels good to know she is with her bfriend and he is taking care of her . SHe calls in every day, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day, sometimes not at all. She will even call and say, " I wanted to talk to my mom...mommy I love you". SO yeah we are good. Still feels weird though.
I will find my way as well. Knowing she is safe and ok keeps me sane.....I will be fine.
jode