Just like I mentioned to share our wedding pics with Roxy, just as she has done with hers!
This is me in my wedding dress. We had our wedding at the in-laws house out on the deck over looking the pool and back yard. Took a nap in the middle of my wedding day and my wonderful hubby was so sweet and understanding!PS It is great to finally see what you look like Joonie. I knew you would be lovely. Close enough! This is us after the ceremony
waiting to start the reception at the local sports club. We got married August
8th 2004
Leslie
OOOwwww...albear went strapless! You look very pretty and happy albear. I have a big chest strapless did not look right. My dress had a very deep V and hubby was staring down my dress throughout saying our vows. He is 6 foot and I am 5'2". In some of our wedding pics you can actually see him looking down my dress.
Roxy - I was married December 5, 1998. Me and hubby were both 19 and MaryBeth was 5 months old. Oh and add about 20+ lbs to my body. In that pic I knew nothing of prednisone. ONLY post-baby fat...lol.
Less13 - Thank You!
Where are Roxy's? I just got back and can't find it. You guys look so pretty. I just emailed mine to Joonie so she'll post mine when she gets a chance. Come on guys....share more. I love seeing these!! Where are Roxie's photos? I can't find them either. Mailady Barb
Thanks Joonie for all your help; you're the best!! dyna - what Lovie said...lol.
Lovie - Your Welcome!
You are so Lovely!!
Handsome hubby too!! Love the beautiful pictures, thanks for sharing
It's neat seeing everyone. Post More guys!! I want to see everyone. Absolutely beautiful pictures!
Dont get me wrong all of your wedding pic are just beautiful. But kinda reminds me of my wedding day, it was beautiful too. Unfortunately my hubby didnt wanna stay thru the worse part so he left me!
Joon, Albear, and Lovie your wedding pic are beautiful. Glad u guys have such supportive hubbies, it helps to have someone to lean on
He is a very self-centered person. He is a hateful person, by hateful I mean he is rude and inconsiderate of others. He did not seem to be like that when we were dating, but then again they all change after they are married. He is like a spoiled 10 year old. And hubby does not seem to take the "worst" very well either. He just chooses to ingnore. His mentality is if you ignore it, it will go away. So, he ignores me....lol. BUT I do not go away I actually keep coming back!...LOL. I could go on forever about hubby's bad "qualities" (which I actually have a list of), BUT I will not. I still love him, even though he is the way he is. I just know that there really is NO ONE else out there in the world who can put up with his personality & qualities..lol. My thought is, that if we ever do split. e would not treat the next one like he has done me. He would probably be more considerate, understanding, and "polite". So, I guess there is someone else out there that could put up with him. Oh well, was a nice thought while it lasted, that I was actually doing humanity a favor...LOL. Jooniper, Thanx for cheering me up, been down about my situation lately. Most of my good friends are married to wonderful men who have stuck by them. Mine chose to run like a coward. As a matter of fact he moved out of state and didnt even tell me where he was going. Oh well his loss I guess. I would like to think that maybe one day I will find another man who is 10 times the man my idiot husband was. Hey one can dream cant she.
I think we all have a list of qualities we dont like about our husbands, but to me if a man is willing to stay and not just give up on his marriage vows, even with all his irritating qualities, thats one good quality you can get from him. Heck I'd take one good quality right about now. Shawnie Anytime Shawnie! When ever you feel down again, just let me know and I will give ya another bad "quality" of hubby off my list...lol...I have bunches!!
Oh and you know what is bad I cannot remember what our wedding vows were...lol...not kidding...so I cannot tell if he is sticking to the vows or not...lol. We did not go with the normal vows nor did we write them. I guess I will have to watch our wedding video to find out. But I did give a list of things I looked down upon and gave good examples of what I considered cheating and so on. Those are the only things I go by. And they are embedded in his brain by now, hopefully. Shawnie~Honey...this is my second Husband!! The first one was NOTHING to write home about. Keep your chin up; everything happends for a reason. I think my first marriage slip up so I could eventually find the real love of my life. My first husband couldn't hold a candle to my new husband. He's the absolute best....and I'm very grateful my first husband is gone!! Hopefully one day you'll have a simular situation. Hang in there. We love you!! I know Im not washed up yet, just sometimes feel like it since my body is more old ladylike than spring chickenlike
Oh and Joon, Dont worry about not remembering your vows, Obvioulsly my husband forgot them the day after we got married
I do not cook for hubby he does not like anyone elses cooking, but his mothers, and Micky D's. I told you I have a LOT of "qualities" to mention about him....lol. This one would be PICKY!! But not the normal PICKY!! Only Hamburgers, spegetti, french fries, and sometimes hotdogs. Is all he will eat. NO vegetables. NO Fruit. And when he does eat fruits it makes you wonder if he visited the doctor and the doc told him he was dying. Yeah
BTW: When I said all you need to know is where the skillet is I didnt mean for cooking.
No I am just slow. I do not read well. I cannot comprehend what I am reading very well. I usually have to read something more than once to understand it. But, I have no skillet to boop him over the head with. I do however wish I had a cordless mouse to embed in his forehead. That would be GREAT!!
Oh Joonie, you are way too funny!!
I hope you feel better!!
Ya'll are lucky to have a man... im all alone in this hell hole of a life... i have friends that are good friends, but they still dont understand.. and i do everything myself... Sorry... im getting tired... and im getting tired of going to bed alone....
I am happy that I have a man, when he is acting right. I use to do everything myself. He never use to help me out. But I was also not this bad off either. And it kinda helped that I was pregnant and he just had to help me out, due to complications, early during the pregnancy. I just have not let him not help me anymore. I like that he is doing the laundry, tending to Andrew more then me when he is home, and doing some of the house work. House is not as clean as it was when I kept it up, but it is live-able...lol. He is getting better. I just have to work on him. What I am trying to say sometimes even if you do have a man you are still misrable. Because they do bring heart ache and sadness. They sometimes will make you feel like you are alone "in this hell hole of a life". Unless you are lucky enough to find a man like Lovie & Roxy. After I divorced my first husband a good friend of mine who is actually about my Mother's age; but still one of my best friends told me something I'll never forget. She said: "It's better to be alone; than to wish you were." It didn't take me but one second to understand what she meant. So many of us that have been through bad marriages spent time off and on during that time imagining what it would be like to once again be single...and actually wished we were. Right then and there I decided I'd embrace my single life and learn to make myself happy before I tried to find happiness with another man. I think it's made me a stronger woman and now it makes my relationship stronger as well. I adore my husband and love being married but it taught me that I can be single and be happy as well...that gives me great strength. Great comfort knowing that I can take care of myself and be happy at the same time. Well put Lovie. That is what I was trying to say kinda. But I am not that good with words after about 10pm...lol. My mother has been on her own, without a man, for about 25 years now. The last man she was with was my dad (they never married) when I was 1yrs old. After that she just had me and some of my siblings when they would come visit, oh and my Uncle Pete (her brother), until he died. She is a very strong woman. Probably because she has been without a man for 25 yrs. and due to her 2 previous abusive marriages. But she is now on the go and never home. She is always doing something with her church group and very happy. Unicorn, You can be married and still be alone and lonely. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it being married. If it is meant to be, you will find someone and you won't be alone. I know my brother divorced after 20plus years of marriage, and remarried a wonderful lady. I told him too bad he didn't meet her first. He told me, that probably he would not have appreciated her as much as he does. They have been thru so many bad times together. Don't worry, when you feel down just come here and we will try to boost you up. I cannot imagine the wonder of these women on this message board. They are terrific. Mailady Thanks all... im not usually down on myself for being alone... i do feel like i am a strong woman...i mean i take care of myself, my house, and i usually am there for the few friends i hang out with. Most people cant believe that I am alone and ok with it. I just saw Must Love Dogs and you all MUST SEE IT!!!!!!! it was SOOOOOOOO good that it was well worth the !!!!!!!!!! Ok well i am tired and going to try to go to bed at a decent hour (if you call 12:30 am a decent hour!) More tomorrow!!! They meet on the internet; right? That's how I found my "Lovie". I'm a firm believer in internet romance!!
Feel FREE to add them! Or if you do not know how to add them, but have them on your computer you can email them to me and I will more then happily post them on here for ya! Just PM me! I told my husband that I posted our wedding pictures and my friends here said he was handsome. He didn't believe me so I had to show him your comments. He said to tell you; "Well thank you ladies...and I'l pretty good in bed too!!"
(It's true
But i have to say i am jealous of the wedding day, closest i have is photos of my mum's wedding where i was bridesmaid last year. or maid of honour or whatever you call it, strapless dress and bad tan lines
ok i stop wittering now.
You're right though....it is expensive for guest to come; but we did have one couple that went with us and we had so much fun!! It's so nice and stress free that way. I missed my parents on our big day; but my mother is afraid to fly and my husband and I really wanted a simple, stress free...all about us wedding. I wouldn't change a thing!! And my Mother made my dress...so it felt like I had a little bit of her with me on my special day. Here's Pam!
Just a thought from a guys point of view!
Keep in mind that photo is 13 yrs old
13 years better right?
I LOVE seeing everyone's wedding pics - It's such a fun thing to see! I was in radio back when I worked fulltime & it is always so interesting to put a face to a name! ALL of you are BEAUTIUS!!... My hubby & I have been through some REALLY rough times but by the grace of God(and aLOT of hard work & praying) we are still together...18yrs...very much an accomplishment these days
PAM...how do I share my wedding photo?
Lulu Roxy is right. I stink at the computer, so I took my photo to work and scanned it. Then I had to have someone at work help me put it as an attachment to my email to Joonie. It took me 3 tries
I'll be watching for your pics
We love you Joonie!! Thanks for helping us. Your Welcome Guys!! Who ever wants their wedding pic on here and do not know how to post them. Send your pics to me. I will post them for ya. Just PM me and I will give you my email addy so you can email them to me. I can post your pics too.. not wanting to take away joonies "job" but i dont want her to get overwhelmed.... PM me for my email! Laters Thanks unicorn! Well, Pm me or unicorn! We both know what were doing! We the experts! Oh wait I do not have to "sell" our expertise our posts say it all....lol.
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