arriscolwell Senior Member
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Posted: 08 December 2006 at 10:37pm | IP Logged |
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The posts that Roxy leaves on this board are only half the story. It is very rude of you to assume that you know the entire situation. While she is very sweet to pour her heart out to us, you have to understand that doesn't mean she tells this board EVERYTHING. If for YOU leaving your husband was the best thing, that's great. But for you to TELL SOMEONE ELSE to do it, is very very VERY presumptuous and mean. Not all alcoholics are going to behave the same. Not all people with RA are going to behave the same.
You speak of "drunks having feelings" and while I do not disagree with you, ROXY HAS FEELINGS TOO. This disease has devistated her and is a HUGE adjustment for her, and drunk or not, that is something Brett has GOT to help her with, or there is simply no relationship. For you to say that SHE needs to stop being self centered is disgusting. After all that she has done FOR him, to help him, and he REJECTED IT. She is bearing her soul to him, and you say that she is SELF CENTERED? How dare you.
And I will be the FIRST person to tell you that Roxy and I have had our moments, and honestly we don't always get along. She drives me crazy sometimes and I think she makes some...odd...decisions but NEVER, NEVER have I thought that she was self centered or ANY of the things that you have accused her of. Roxy is still a beautiful person who is stuggling VERY hard with far too many issues at one time. If anything at times I have said that she was too forgiving, and too nice.
You did not stand up and say "I don't support what you're doing" You my friend stood up and said "You are a terrible person" and then you quickly stabed that knife into Roxy's back and walked away.
Shame, shame on you. |